New member and wife of doll owner
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I appreciate your candor, and the good humor in your posts! Glad to hear you and your husband are growing your relationship with the doll in a positive way
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My wife and I are young, I'm in early 30s she's in her 20s, we've been married 2 years, we have twin babies plus another kid on the way. My wife has been having horrible morning sickness and hasn't been able to have sex with me plus she hates the scent of me while she's pregnant (maybe her hormones have changed her smell sense or nerves). Long story short we aren't having sex any more or maybe once a month. I've been trying to masturbate to porn in the bathroom or whatever to get my rocks off. It's been getting boring and I've been scouting sex dolls for about a year now. I finally bit the bullet and bought one and I rented a 5"x10" storage unit with a mattress and bed in it to have sex with the sex doll on.
My wife knows nothing about the sex doll and I plan to keep it that way, she would go ballistic if she knew about it. Perhaps in a few months I'll sell the doll and after giving birth to our kid, we'll have sex again. So the sex doll is just a stopgap measure for sex.
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So many marriages falter at these times, dolls are a very important potential solution.
Perhaps you might try something more innocent and play in her presence or even next to her - buy a bag of Qualatex 16" geo flower or geo donut balloons.
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This was 6 months ago, I'm trying to be delicate about this. Thanks for the advice, I'll try a little more in the next few months.
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I prefer to think I'm Differently Normal Well at least according to today's mess of PC languagedoctorb wrote: .......You all do seem to be a colorful eccentric bunch, and I like that very much.......
This does not surprise me in the slightest. I'm a single 43 year old. Been Married, Been left, Still get on well with the Ex but we can't/don't work as a couple. So I turned to dolls after getting a Teddybabe to fill up the empty bed space at night. From the moment Jess arrived, she had regular everyday clothes. Yes she has some sexy undies and silky nighties, but nothing you wont find in a normal high street store. A french maids outfit can be fun, but I dont know of any girls who wear one regularly and in that I found that Jess was more attractive to me dressed in everyday attire. I have a preference for jeans, strapy tops and ponytails, so Jess is often dressed like that (when she isnt just lounging in bed in a long nightie or T-shirt and knickers). Hell she even has a pair of Ugg boots because I happen to think they make a girl look cute, even though the rest of the world seems to believe they are the ugliest footwear possible (apart from crocs, cos, just no)doctorb wrote: ..... I guess I should be flattered that my husband seems to prefer dressing his doll in clothes I would wear, rather than those I buy for her......
Xiaoli Arrived a while later and is also a DS-Doll so you know how 'flawless' she is compared to us mere mortals, but again she dresses in everyday stuff (Currently pink fleece PJ's with sheep on them!) because I find that more attractive than 'Sexy Stuff'
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Jess Xiaoli I guess the point I'm waffling over here is that we each define what we find attractive, and for many, it's very much in the realms of what we see every day.
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For me, my dolls serve as companions more than anything. It's just wonderful to have their presence in the house. The fact that they're always in the mood doesn't hurt either. I like to inject certain personalities into each one as well, which further enhances the experience. It's just an all around great hobby, IMO.
While I don't currently live with one, I would never think of trying to hide my hobby from a spouse/partner; it just seems like an accident waiting to happen. One thing's for sure, I'm never giving up my dolls for anyone, so any future potential partner would have to be OK with it. While I'm sure this would turn away some, I'd rather find out early on, rather than down the road.
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I must have missed your lady somewhere along the line - she's stunning.
Best wishes
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Now onto something you said here :
It rarely works out both in marriage and relationships, have you ever asked yourself why we care for our dolls the way we do? It's because we won't be judged and shamed for it. We men are constantly barraged with messages about being strong, never show emotion, never cry or get upset about things, never show you like feminine things such as playing with dolls, we gotta man up and take charge , do a demanding and physical job and be a leader. This is all extremely stressful and we gotta put on this bullshit act about being alpha with our women. With dolls we can let our guard down and show real affection and love , the doll will never laugh or criticise us, we can play with her how we want and it's a good stress reliever , all that social crap is gone and we can be ourselves so don't be surprised when your husband acts differently with the doll.Tell your wife she is beautiful and show her the attention and respect that all of you do to your dolls, and hopefully it will all work out.
So best thing you can do is get involved with the doll and consider it an aid to your marriage because the couples on here who have dolls seem very happy together.
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I'm courting a woman I hope to my next wife, and have been completely open about my dolls because I'm not getting rid of them if she moves in. It's exactly the same with my motorcycle; a prospective mate may not like them, but it's not right to demand it be sold (I understand your man got his doll after you were married, but hopefully it makes my point).
It's a total turn on to have my dolls watch me be intimate with one of their sisters. I've always two in my bed, so it's fun for me to reach over and fondle one while doing the other. By the way - possibly time to hit your old man up to get you a male doll. Unlike the female dolls, they're offered with multiple sized & shaped penises that can swapped out in an instant (only bummer is the male dolls all seem to be the same height & weigh 100 lbs).
Glad you're here & do hope you keep posting.
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My wife and I both gained a lot pf perspectove on the topic of dolls as well as some insights into each other.
Thanks again.
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Excellent, glad to hear it. I hope you and your wife will stick around. It's great to have couples on the forum.tuffmuffins wrote:To the original poster, and everyone on this thread, thank you for your open and honest discussion and insights.
My wife and I both gained a lot pf perspectove on the topic of dolls as well as some insights into each other.
Thanks again.