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No doubt many people can use pornography in a healthy way. I use the term addiction because I was stuck in a cycle of compulsive use that I could not break and it was negatively impacting my life and relationships. Dolls interrupted that cycle for me. Again, no judgement on those who can use porn in positive and healthy ways.
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Dolly Dearest wrote:Step 1. Attend feminist rally.

Step 2. Imply that sex dolls will save marriages.

Step 3. Run for your life. 8)

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Adventurer wrote:No doubt many people can use pornography in a healthy way. I use the term addiction because I was stuck in a cycle of compulsive use that I could not break and it was negatively impacting my life and relationships. Dolls interrupted that cycle for me. Again, no judgement on those who can use porn in positive and healthy ways.
We totally agree and we are glad to read that you feel identified by our article. We don't want to say that porn is a bad thing, like everything in this life whether a hobby or habit, nothing is bad as long as it makes you happy and impact your life or others :)
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    A great, feel good story.

    Problem though, not too many wives are enlightened enough or are just plain insensitive and controlling to allow this sort of solution in a marriage. My soon to be ex wife, since she is low libido (weeks to months in between sex) thinks i should be low libido, too. I was extremely upfront with her about my porn consumption because of her libido and how she prioritized our intimacy, which was dead last when it came to anything else.

    So, she pitched a fit where she threatened my life and my anatomy, because of her inadequacy, etc, etc.

    Now she has no husband and a cold bed to lay in.

    And now I've gone my own way, to where soon I am going to lay next to cute doll companions night after night.

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    to be honest, my doll made my "porn addiction" worse: i really like shooting "dirty" actions with my doll, besides i have serious "doll addiction", just like others who already posted about it

    fortunately, i don't care about any "addiction". i like what is good for me, and judgmental idiots can bite me

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    He has a super-understanding wife! All credit to her

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    "Doll addiction" is one surrogate. Another is "doll shopping addiction". Finding that wig or underwear you want is a similar "hunting" behavior to looking for the porn you want. Here's an interesting article about that:
    Dopamine is all about seeking and searching for rewards, the anticipation, the wanting. Dopamine provides the motivation and drive to pursue potential rewards or long term goals. Although controversial, it appears that the final reward or good feelings arise from opioids. Put simply - dopamine is wanting, opioids are liking.

    As psychologist Susan Weinschenk explained, the neurotransmitter dopamine does not cause people to experience pleasure, but rather causes a seeking behavior. “Dopamine causes us to want, desire, seek out, and search,” she wrote. It is the opioid system that causes one to feel pleasure. Yet, “the dopamine system is stronger than the opioid system,” she explained. “We seek more than we are satisfied.” Addiction may be thought of as wanting run amok.
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    I can see how the wanting/hunting gets transferred to surrogate activities. Makes sense. My thrill of the hunt is quite satisfied by finding and putting on an outfit on my doll, and then of course the reward... I find the whole process so much more satisfactory with a doll than with porn.

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    I have tried to stop porn on several occasions , deleting entire hard drives of the stuff and deleting bookmarks but it never lasted. People say a man who watches this stuff and likes the more extreme and hardcore porn is an addict and pervert but is that really true? I questioned why I wanted to quit and it came down to ' if I have a real gf then it will affect the sex' , well I don't have a gf and if I did I wouldn't want her to be vanilla in bed , it just doesn't do it for me.

    I think we have to accept who we are and trying to suppress our manly desires by quitting and buying a doll to save a marriage is not the right step. We all have fetishes and some are fucked up but it's normal, we are sexual creatures and it's usually the most perverted and darkest desires that gives us the best orgasm. Smashing pies into a womans body and eating them, is that really so bad? bdsm? that's foreplay if you ask me, anal is normal and every man wants to fuck a girl in the ass. Why are men being told these are not right and we should settle for missionary or cowgirl? I disagree completely, I say everyone should explore there inner desires to truly understand who we are and what we like.

    Only through porn can we be shown what sex can be like and open to more possibilities , for me I am the kinkiest person you'll meet, i'll do bondage, group play, bukkake, shemales, whatever, it's all fun and games as long as no one is getting hurt. Also have you noticed how these sort of articles are directed at men? like we are some predators that will jump on anything. Well let me tell you something, women are very sexual creatures and I can guarantee you that their fetishes are way more extreme. Do you know that loads of women fantasise about being raped while they play with themselves? that they want to be group fucked and treated like a whore? When you watch porn , haven't you ever questioned why their are literally hundreds of thousands of women performing for us?

    We men are the perverts and need to calm down? seriously? I say it's the other way around, a man wanting to fuck a girl is 100% normal, looking at beautiful women on screen is normal, staying married to a woman for 8 years and never having sex because you are told your desires are wrong? come on , open your eyes and see the truth.

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    There are some who will say that they made a decision to reduce or stop watching porn and it worked well for them. That's fine.

    Describing regular consumption of porn as an addiction is debatable, however, and possibly serves an agenda. Consider the post that kicked off the topic. A sex doll vendor presents a tale "about how to stop porn addiction and save a marriage with a sex doll."

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    Our story is based on a real customer story that wanted to share his experience with us and with the community. Several other customers also told us about how their lives changed using doll and how they were able to improve their marriages or overcome habits that they wanted to change.

    We are not saying that a sex doll will have the same benefits in everybody, but it is clear that sex dolls have changed the lives of many men, and we are proud to be part of that.

    We are more than happy to help if we can :)
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      I bought my doll specifically to deal with my porn addiction. I have tried off and on through out my 20's to quit compulsively using porn and as I noticed my 30th birthday approaching I knew I had to stop. I have lived almost half my life already, almost 2/3rds of it watching and masturbating to porn compulsively while my sex life dwindled away and I developed porn induced ED. My 20's were supposed to be the best time of my life but when you have ED things with the ladies seem to take a dive when it comes to getting laid. I have had so many failed sexual encounters because of this. A member of a porn addiction support group suggested buying a sex doll. Many in the group scoffed at it saying its basically like using porn but this particular member made very valid points that swayed me. For example he said using a TPE doll is almost as realistic as having sex with a real partner. Its there in the flesh (or TPE) and youre not throbbing your bone with your hand for hours while searching through an ocean of smut looking for that one perfect video all the while youre putting off orgasm by edging. Instead you have one lover (the doll) and your using your bone the way it should be used, and thats penetrating soft holes, it doesnt matter if its TPE or real pussy because your brain cant tell the difference. If you ask me I would say its working. I have sex with the doll once a day or every other day right now instead of strangling my dick 3 times a day average like I did watching porn. I dont even crave porn, its like my brain knows there is a better alternative in my bedroom closet ready to go. In just the short time Ive had the doll I can already see the difference. My erections are harder and much more sustainable, Im getting better sleep and I have more energy. Im very excited for myself in the upcoming year when my brain acclimates completely to in person lovers. I think by then I will regain my drive to find a real partner and have sex with out fear of disappointing her because I have porn induced ED. If you ask me, these dolls are god sends and therapeutic and I just want to thank the manufacturers, the vendors, and this community for making this healing therapy possible.

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      This is great. I already try to watch porn less sometimes. The doll definitely is healthier I believe.
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      lvjtn, where would you like to be bitten?

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      Whitedevil90, just be aware there are killjoys out there working to make this wonderful hobby/interest illegal :shakefist:

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