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Re: A brave new world

Posted: Sun Oct 29, 2017 11:48 pm
by sam treadwell
Zebo wrote:Now let me tell you a story about the other side of the coin. I had a friend of 20 yrs, struggled with a bad marriage, bad relationships and just angry , depressed that he couldn't connect with an RG. He always asked me how I could be so happy all the time, when he knew I wasn't seeing anyone, nor had been for years. So I decided to show him, one day I invited him over and we usually got together a couple times a week for dinner or a movie or something. He was a good friend. I took him into the doll room and showed him my dolls. In a period of 2-3 minutes I watched his face go from fascination to arousal to embarrassment and at that point he wouldn't touch the dolls and left the room immediately. I told him that I had been using the dolls for yrs and I was very satisfied with them. He told me that I needed to talk to someone because I was loosing my grip on reality. We never talked about after that and over a 6 month period, we quit going out together and calling and talking. And now he doesn't even return my calls.
I guess my point here is be careful who you bring into your doll life......
This friend of mine, I honestly believed he was a great candidate for a doll. I never in a million years believed he would just freak out like this. You can lose friends trying to help......remember that!!
That’s unfortunate Zebo. As I first read through your post I was expecting it to go the other direction. I’ve revealed my secret to a few people, and most, while perhaps thinking it odd on some level to themselves, were more or less accepting of it. I do know of one person though that was so freaked out about this hobby that he constantly made mention of this “weird dude” (not me) that he knew of that had an anatomically correct sex doll. This guy had no desire to get involved in another relationship, so from then on it was casual dalliances or escorts for him, which is too costly and risky for me.

I’m happy with my choice, and the only thing that could improve things even more for me, will be the day when AI will be fully integrated into our dolls. I just hope that I’m not too old to be able to take advantage of it when that time finally does arrive :(

Re: A brave new world

Posted: Mon Oct 30, 2017 8:12 am
by deerman
Yes Sam this was intended a positive post! :D

Re: A brave new world

Posted: Mon Oct 30, 2017 10:22 am
by Brick
I am sorry, it was not my intention to bring everyone down. However, I just wanted to give some balance to this post. When you reveal your Doll Life to others, even those that you think you know well, you are taking a chance. Just think it over well before you throw it out there. That's all...

Re: A brave new world

Posted: Mon Oct 30, 2017 10:29 am
by dullahan
Zebo wrote:I am sorry, it was not my intention to bring everyone down. However, I just wanted to give some balance to this post. When you reveal your Doll Life to others, even those that you think you know well, you are taking a chance. Just think it over well before you throw it out there. That's all...
Yeah, especially when you are part of this doll community, it can be very difficult to understand how alien the idea of doll companionship is to the masses. Even the most progressive of people will have serious reservations about this at first.

Best to either tread carefully or go the kruiser's way and just not give a damn. The courageous people being open about the hobby will be paving a way for this to become less stigmatized.

Also, it's funny that if you are just fucking a doll, people can be a bit more accepting. It's more likened to a Fleshlight that is more advanced. But humanize the doll and you are a nut job.

Re: A brave new world

Posted: Mon Oct 30, 2017 5:02 pm
by Brick
Anything we put a human face on, we endow it with a soul and believe it should have rights and be treated as an citizen and on and on and on.....