Re: Friends don't let friends ONLINE DATE
Posted: Mon May 28, 2018 2:16 pm
Trying to find your perfect partner. Come to TP E Harmony where youll find a woman who wont chase just the top 20%. She will be ready for all comers.
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Yep. You see this everywhere you go these days. Just one example was when I went to Walmart last week and a bunch of people were sitting together and NO ONE was talking. They ALL had their heads buried in their damn smart phones.katiesBoyfriend wrote: Smart phones also killed another traditional way of meeting someone, namely striking up a conversation.
I learned that if she's constantly looking down at her electronic toy, she's definitely not interested in chatting with you. If you insist and do try to engage her in conversation, which, as far as I know, is still considered socially acceptable, she'll either look up and ask "Huh?" or become extremely annoyed and give you a how-dare-you-interrupt-me glare.
Oddly enough, I see young couples. who are either dating or married, doing the same thing. i emphasize young couples because I don't recall ever seeing any older people doing that.Stewie studmuffin wrote:Yep. You see this everywhere you go these days. Just one example was when I went to Walmart last week and a bunch of people were sitting together and NO ONE was talking. They ALL had their heads buried in their damn smart phones.katiesBoyfriend wrote: Smart phones also killed another traditional way of meeting someone, namely striking up a conversation.
I learned that if she's constantly looking down at her electronic toy, she's definitely not interested in chatting with you. If you insist and do try to engage her in conversation, which, as far as I know, is still considered socially acceptable, she'll either look up and ask "Huh?" or become extremely annoyed and give you a how-dare-you-interrupt-me glare.
The bad thing about this is that if some of these people were single, they missed out on a great opportunity to perhaps meet that special someone and thus avoiding the nightmare of online dating.
But like you said, it would be almost impossible for a man to start a conversation with a woman while she was on her phone because she would look at him like she wanted to kill him.
Although I was once witness to a funny (and sad) spectacle of this clueless guy trying to engage a woman who was glued to her phone. He was trying his best to talk to her and she wouldn't so much as look at him. He just kept talking and she only responded with one word answers with her eyes never leaving the phone.
A dream come true!mason703 wrote: Thats excellent advice. This is pretty much my daily practice, focusing on self-development and improvement. I can be very happy alone, and I actually prefer it, especially when writing and recording music, fixing up cars, and of course..photographing my Passiondolls, but I also spend quality time with friends and family at local places to have a drink and chat and laugh about life and work, or going to live rock shows to see my favorite bands.
Chasing women is an instant turn off anyway. It makes you appear weak and desperate, and women want what they can't have or someone that is a bit of a challenge....so focus on creating the best version of "YOU" possible. Women are attracted to confidence and its hard to be confident when your life is a disaster and you look and feel unhealthy.
Besides, coming home to this every night keeps me pretty occupied..lol
Here's their best counter-argument:
Firstly, I think it's great a woman is here, engaging in a fun hobby. It's mosly male dominated. If your man is jealous, even a little, about us, make him join and find out who we(the community) are. It's not like you're on here trying to find a date. I'd be over the moon if my wife was a member here and shared in this hobby.violette_22 wrote:I don't know. I spent 3 hours using online dating and was found. I really don't know what it's like on the other side, but on my side it was very odd. I figured it was worth a shot just to talk to some fellas in my area. I suppose we were just lucky. So far, it's been 19 months we've been seeing each other. He doesn't mind that I have dolls and stuff. He does get a teeny bit jealous of me using this site, but.... it's all good. I'm here for the doll chat and to support others in the hobby.
One thing that I think would help is if doll vendors would consider to advertise their goods on dating sites since most seem to feature ads for revenue. This would be a win-win because those that just want sex and nothing else would get what they want a whole lot faster with no drama. It would probably even the numbers a bit and give those that want to share their life a better chance at that.
I've done some other places where random chat was a thing while I was bored and too sleepy/tired to do much else and have found that random horny dudes are often really surprised to learn of love dolls. I mostly like to talk different subjects with random people, not looking for online hookups. I do understand that wanting some connection is just part of being human. Maybe it's because I'm a girl they think it's cool, but I do believe I've sent a few here to the forum to see if that's something that would improve happiness and quality of life. I'd love for everyone that wanted to have any sort of doll that would make them feel happy to have them, be it a love doll or any other for whatever reason. I find different dolls really do help a whole lot of people for different reasons in different ways.
If I ever end up single again... I'm going strictly Sex Dolls. I'm going to buy a Cabin in Maine with a fireplace and live out the rest of my days in seclusion with a harem of Dolls. To heck with Dating!mason703 wrote:Friends don't let friends ONLINE DATE!!
They persuade you to get a Passiondoll !!!!!!
I am turned on ...thank you!PassionDolls wrote:It's unlikely most guy will ever find a hot girl on dating site. Why settle for "average" when you can pick your own date:
natural figure with nice curvy bubble butt (Nadia), Huge and busty (Erika), Muscle babe (Michele).
Or just do all three
Fucking pure genius!Stewie studmuffin wrote:I can really believe this article as I wrote a similar profile for my doll when I put her on POF. Although I did it for shits and giggles, it was also an experiment to see what sort of messages women receive on these sites. I didn't respond to any messages or try to lead anyone on. I just put up a single picture, wrote a psychotic sounding profile, and just sat back to observe the train wreck.alc123 wrote:That's true, even if the woman is a less than ideal date:mason703 wrote:They have 1000's of matches and messages daily, its extremely rare you even get noticed...even for an extremely good-looking guy.
I actually went out of my way to make her sound like a mentally deranged gold digger who was stuck on herself and was only interested in using men for their money. But it didn't seem to matter as she got almost 500 responses in the short time that she was on there.
I shouldn't have been surprised since the bottom 80% of men are pretty much invisible to most women and therefore extremely desperate and horny as a result. I guess as long as they thought that they could get laid, then they didn't care that they were being used.
I also include myself in that group since I'm not only in the bottom 80%, I'm at the very bottom of the bottom 80%. So before I got into dolls, I was so desperate that I knowingly let myself be used as it seemed like this was the only way of obtaining some semblance of female affection.
But at any rate, if a doll can get that many responses; you can imagine how many responses real chicks are getting. Which is one of the reasons that online dating is a huge waste of time for most guys. Just too much competition for any guy not in the top 20% for looks.
Hell, I was on there for TWO YEARS with nothing to show for it. Needless to say, it was extremely depressing to know that I was considered so worthless.
That's why giving up and getting a doll was the smartest move that I ever made. Hence my signature line: I feel much better now that I've given up hope.
Nothing like a good pure train wreck. Especially, if there's a bottle of wine involved? It becomes pure entertainment and a giggled fest.I just put up a single picture, wrote a psychotic sounding profile, and just sat back to observe the train wreck.
I'm surprised that you decided not to make money off of that LOLIcuminpieces wrote:Stewie studmuffin wrote: I can really believe this article as I wrote a similar profile for my doll when I put her on POF. Although I did it for shits and giggles, it was also an experiment to see what sort of messages women receive on these sites. I didn't respond to any messages or try to lead anyone on. I just put up a single picture, wrote a psychotic sounding profile, and just sat back to observe the train wreck.
I actually went out of my way to make her sound like a mentally deranged gold digger who was stuck on herself and was only interested in using men for their money. But it didn't seem to matter as she got almost 500 responses in the short time that she was on there.
I shouldn't have been surprised since the bottom 80% of men are pretty much invisible to most women and therefore extremely desperate and horny as a result. I guess as long as they thought that they could get laid, then they didn't care that they were being used.
I also include myself in that group since I'm not only in the bottom 80%, I'm at the very bottom of the bottom 80%. So before I got into dolls, I was so desperate that I knowingly let myself be used as it seemed like this was the only way of obtaining some semblance of female affection.
But at any rate, if a doll can get that many responses; you can imagine how many responses real chicks are getting. Which is one of the reasons that online dating is a huge waste of time for most guys. Just too much competition for any guy not in the top 20% for looks.
Hell, I was on there for TWO YEARS with nothing to show for it. Needless to say, it was extremely depressing to know that I was considered so worthless.
That's why giving up and getting a doll was the smartest move that I ever made. Hence my signature line: I feel much better now that I've given up hope.I just put up a single picture, wrote a psychotic sounding profile, and just sat back to observe the train wreck.
mason703 wrote:Friends don't let friends ONLINE DATE!!
They persuade you to get a Passiondoll !!!!!!