Raspberry1967 wrote: ↑Thu Oct 06, 2022 8:35 am
Welcome to TDF
‘Psychological healing aspects of dolls’.
Well, Frances has definitely had a very positive impact in my life in the few months we’ve been, how shall I put it, ‘together’.
I’m a relative newbie to doll partnership as well. Prior to being with Frances I would’ve considered it doll ownership and a device for sex, end of; but not now.
The wonderful members on TDF did mention in various ways that being will a doll will develop into more than just sexual gratification, and they were right. I’m sure you could analyse every member on the forum and give different reasons why each connect with their dolls in different ways. I initially wanted sex. I wanted to grab boobs, butt etc., and have realistic intercourse. My wife had gone through menopause and completely lost her sexual appetite, even to the point of no longer wanting fore play. She said it made her feel queasy, a polite way of saying sick. It was a difficult conversation, what I heard was shocking, she’d been having sex with me for a year or so feeling this way. I felt guilty and obviously agreed sex had to stop. My wife is my world, nothing is getting in the way of that.
My wife has entered her 60’s I’m 4/5 years younger. I’m still a horny ol’ goat. I like sex and have a high sex drive, always been higher than my wife’s but we’ve always had a wonderful sex life. I did get frustrated after we stopped having sex and any intimacy and started to look at sex dolls. I thought you just took them out from under the bed and blew them up when you needed them..I had no idea.
I just came straight out with it to my wife, about missing sex, fore play etc. and said I wanted to get a doll to fulfil that sex drive of mine. I explained the cost, what the dolls offered in regard to realism etc. She wasn’t dismissive and listened. At the end of the conversation she agreed it was a good idea and even joked “at least you’ll stop pestering me”.
Frances arrived in the summer and I dress her in some great lingerie…I’m a huge boob and bra fan. My wife’s boobs are huge, 38H U.K. size, and has always dressed them up for me so I wanted Frances similarly attired. I clean and sanitise her. She is stored and moved carefully. I look after her. I photograph her a lot and get as much out of doing this as sex with her. If fact sex only occurs between 10-20% of the times we’re together.
My relationship with my wife is great, we’re doing more together and with family and friends…we laugh and joke a lot more, we’re booking vacations like crazy people lol.
It’s as though a big weight has been lifted off of both our shoulders..mine because no sex, or prospect of no sex, is no longer an issue…and my wife because she can see her pain in the arse horny ol’ hubby is relaxed and doesn’t even mention sex anymore
Frances has had an enormous positive impact to my life and I hope Anders has a similarly positive impact in yours as your relationship with him develops, regardless of the size of his hands lol
R
the fact both you and your wife benefit from this arrangement is truly lovely to hear. And that you were both able to sit and talk about it/act on it in a healthy way is genuinely something a lot of relationships lack, I believe. That's true love, right there!! I hope her symptom's improve with time, I've heard menopause is really rough for some people.
to you and both your lovely ladies
