Re: My wife died tonight.
Posted: Fri Sep 30, 2011 6:45 pm
Hi Spiritfire,
I haven't been on here for a while, and I just saw this....I'm very sorry for your loss, and I know what you are going through, having lost my wife to cancer many years ago....it's life's most brutal experience. Watching the one you love deteriorate before your eyes, and knowing there's nothing you can do to stop it, is horrific. I know words ring hollow, but I hope you can take some comfort in the condolences and wishes expressed by everyone here at TDF.
After I lost my wife, I was able to find a support group of people who had been through the same thing....it helped me a lot. Maybe it would help you as well....of course, everyone deals with grief and loss in their own way, and what's right for one person may not be for someone else.....do whatever suits you best to get through and carry on.
Take care, and God bless.
MelodyLuvr (& Melody B. sends you her hugs)
I haven't been on here for a while, and I just saw this....I'm very sorry for your loss, and I know what you are going through, having lost my wife to cancer many years ago....it's life's most brutal experience. Watching the one you love deteriorate before your eyes, and knowing there's nothing you can do to stop it, is horrific. I know words ring hollow, but I hope you can take some comfort in the condolences and wishes expressed by everyone here at TDF.
After I lost my wife, I was able to find a support group of people who had been through the same thing....it helped me a lot. Maybe it would help you as well....of course, everyone deals with grief and loss in their own way, and what's right for one person may not be for someone else.....do whatever suits you best to get through and carry on.
Take care, and God bless.
MelodyLuvr (& Melody B. sends you her hugs)