Greetings from Harem

justintime · Post by **justintime** » Sat May 30, 2020 4:35 pm

I find it amazing that someone / company . could not see these problems themselves.
I mean they had the ability to make a doll, yet they do not know these simple things you pointed out. Strange.
Would of thought they have a check list , and have gone over this 100 times in the pre molding with the placement.

Not really sure how they could go all the way to production and still not know how a vagina works..Strange.
Joints, at the very least use a torch wrench to come close to being the same tightness in joints. Strange
Shipping, better to always do it better , than to risk a unhappy customer. More is always better in this case.

Interesting read Harem

haremlover · Post by **haremlover** » Sun May 31, 2020 7:20 am

I thought people would find it interesting.

Personally I wouldn't want to be in the business of doll manufacturing as I can see the enormous effort which has gone into the doll, but minor considerations have caused failure. It's in this way that being in a position to advise a manufacturer is a great privilege and we'll see the manufacturer returning with perfection in due course, I hope.

It's appropriate to say that this manufacturer isn't greatly known but I hope that as a result of my comments their efforts will be rewarded as they improve and their efforts to perfection are recognised.

Best wishes

Harem

justintime · Post by **justintime** » Sun May 31, 2020 1:49 pm

Personally I wouldn't want to be in the business of doll manufacturing

Yes I couldn't agree more. I would rather watch a football game that be getting the crap beat out of me. Then again.$ .LOL

haremlover · Post by **haremlover** » Sun Nov 08, 2020 4:49 pm

Recent reviews:
Starpery

viewtopic.php?f=548&t=134865

SM Silicone - Silikodoll

viewtopic.php?f=269&t=134469

XYcolo

viewtopic.php?f=525&t=133915

Best wishes

Harem

haremlover · Post by **haremlover** » Sun Nov 15, 2020 12:43 pm

The XYcolo lady now features in Coverdoll . . . .
https://coverdoll.com/drupal/node/3169

Best wishes

Harem

haremlover · Post by **haremlover** » Mon Nov 28, 2022 3:36 pm

With lockdowns and interruptions of normal life and catching up on things life has been rather busy and there's been a hiatus in doing things with dolls . . .

However, whilst uploading some new reviews over the past week I found that one of my YouTube videos for Jarliet . . . https://youtu.be/x-EBOokYqS4 has to date achieved over 2 million views and my channel is on its way to 8000 subscribers.

Recent revues include heads for
Zelex https://youtu.be/Sk1bVuXny7Y

XYcolo https://youtu.be/u0AmJojvqSc

and the glorious Starpery silicone 172 doll https://youtu.be/sdnI_WJAQC8
https://vimeo.com/manage/videos/774465292

which, were I to be able to have only one doll, it might be her although perhaps a weight reduced version might me appreciated.

Earlier this year I encouraged Phil at The Doll House to talk about his victories with UK Border Force https://youtu.be/5AePmKQLmtA who have been playing games with doll owners for years.

https://youtu.be/sXclDWFu-Dw was a video about new faces from SEDoll and I'm really disappointed that they haven't moved into the silicone domain.

I like to explore manufacturers new to the market and so went off-piste exploring dolls from two manufacturers who, sadly, haven't gone anywhere. One, Futuredoll https://youtu.be/XAgZbvPfbzI I rarely see on vendors' lists but deserves more encouragement and CST https://youtu.be/yl2rENftiyQ was feared to be the market disruptor - but hasn't really got anywhere. I normally try to test dolls in bed and after one use the CST looked as though her silicone might split, so she's remained rather an ornament.

Elsa Babe https://youtu.be/jR_u1n0CPjc

is geared up for . . . the purpose for which she's made

and Zelex https://youtu.be/ERS8r5tWMKc

have improved since my review.

DS go for visual realism and photographic perfection - https://youtu.be/OWQ4Zma7cUM

Often a review from me encourages a manufacturer to make an improvement or two and that's quite satisfying.

The review I did for XYColo https://youtu.be/WDrVyQnty_0

has received a respectable 16000 views in under 18 months whilst the Starpery TPE review https://youtu.be/WDrVyQnty_0 is getting on for 200,000 in two years.

There are a few more manufacturers for whom I'd like to do reviews for comparison but some manufacturers simply say that they're not ready for my scrutiny yet . . .

Best wishes

Harem

Chrish78 · Post by **Chrish78** » Tue Jan 17, 2023 10:04 am

Thank you for sharing your detailed story! I’m not sure if I missed something, but how was the process of “introducing” your dolls to your wife? She was revolted at first, and then?

haremlover · Post by **haremlover** » Tue Jan 17, 2023 5:08 pm

Aah - she was aware of my inflatables but in "tidying" one day she found one which was rather heavy. This caused me to have to tell her that this one was just a bit valuable and had to be handled carefully and shouldn't be just thrown into a cupboard.

A marriage that's strong enough to be successful should be able to accommodate differences without one partner having to kowtow to the other for fear the relationship falling apart. Those differences should be treated as things that are perfectly normal. You are who you are and the partner married you for who you are. If that's not what they like they shouldn't have married you. To comply with the other's fantasy of you isn't you and either cannot be sustained or is the recipe for being miserable or suppressed. Marriage is about flourishing both together and as individuals. The together and the each have to live in harmony together without two dominating one.

Best wishes

Harem

Chrish78 · Post by **Chrish78** » Wed Jan 18, 2023 9:03 pm

haremlover wrote: ↑Tue Jan 17, 2023 5:08 pm Aah - she was aware of my inflatables but in "tidying" one day she found one which was rather heavy. This caused me to have to tell her that this one was just a bit valuable and had to be handled carefully and shouldn't be just thrown into a cupboard.

A marriage that's strong enough to be successful should be able to accommodate differences without one partner having to kowtow to the other for fear the relationship falling apart. Those differences should be treated as things that are perfectly normal. You are who you are and the partner married you for who you are. If that's not what they like they shouldn't have married you. To comply with the other's fantasy of you isn't you and either cannot be sustained or is the recipe for being miserable or suppressed. Marriage is about flourishing both together and as individuals. The together and the each have to live in harmony together without two dominating one.

Best wishes

Harem

Very nicely put, like a marriage counselor lol! I’ve worked through some things with my significant other, I think she can accept my eccentricities but I don’t think she can cope with the idea that SHE’s anything other than “the perfect female and all that I should need”. Any time I express interests that are outside of her, she is quick to jump to anger and accusations of perversion. I’ve had a lot of experience with women and I find that women are perfectly happy-with/welcome sexual attention that’s directed toward them, but if the same attention is directed elsewhere then it’s “perverse” and “gross”. But.. that’s just our selfish human nature I guess.