I have adopted a Real Doll Classic body 7 face 13 (Kaori) tanned body. Sense then I have added a Face 8 (Stephi) just to change things up a bit. Either way, she is a beauty. Yes I tend to personalized my "doll" as "she" .Jack Callil wrote:
1. First, tell me a bit about your doll.
Adopted her about a year ago. Do not recall how I came across TDF but when I did was fascinated. The "dolls" were so incredibly beautiful and lifelike. The only question left was 'Do they FEEL real'? The only way to tell was to actually see one in person. But that wasn't likely to happen. Thus started to keep an eye on the 'Dolls For Sale or Trade' on the forum. Needless to say when the shipping create was opened and I saw her for the first time she took my breath away. Been memorized ever since.Jack Callil wrote:
2. When did you first come to own a doll?
Do not really know since I do not make it known that I have a "SILICONE SWEETY" hanging around the house. Live in a rural area with extreme traditional values. One can only imagine. Anything new is always met skeptically and with indignation.Jack Callil wrote:
3. What do you think people stereotypically think about people who own adult dolls? If they are wrong, how so?
I have been divorced for several years at this point. Nearing retirement age, can not afford to give half my wealth away (again) just to benefit another ex's money pot. I do date but live in a very rural area. Not a lot of people in and out especially where I live. Having her around is a great! My quality of life is enhanced . Having her to dress up, sit and gaze at, cuddle with during TV time takes the loneliness away. At times I do talk to her knowing that she can not ever answer ( which is actually a plus over a RG (real girl) which babble on endlessly at times).Jack Callil wrote:
4. Has owning a doll help you during your difficult emotional times?
So one can say I have the best of both worlds. A beautiful lady that listens to me! Apologize for the sarcasm.
Mentioned previously some activities include cuddling, watching the Telly, she models the outfits I buy. Photography is the next area of interest, at least for me. It is nice to have her near when involved in a hobby, just to give the 'feeling' as if someone is with me. Besides, I love looking at her.Jack Callil wrote:
5. What things do you do with your doll, other than sex, if you do?
Shamefully I must admit I do keep her to myself. Mainly the extreme traditional thinking where I live does not allow for any tolerance for anything out of the norm. Have no wishes to be labeled a "sexual deviant" or so "hard up" could not get a RG. Thus to avoid social conflicts I tend not to expose others to my lady.Jack Callil wrote:
6. Do you keep your doll secretive?
In general people do have attachments to objects all the time. For example 'I love my car' or 'I love that place' or 'I love that color' . It is not unusual for people to form attachments.Jack Callil wrote:
7. Do you have an emotional attachment with your doll?
I do have similar attachments. Worked for years with hand tools. Certain tools are my favorite for a particular job for instance. Seems I work better with THAT tool, not even an identical tool would work if it isn't mine. One can say I have an attachment to my tools.
Yes, I feel an attachment to my lady. I accept her for what she is. Know she can not respond nor interact actively. Yet she shares time in my life, a physical closeness and she is an object of affection in that I purchase things FOR her and admire simply be holding her beauty for hours at a time.
SILENCE! I can talk and not be interrupted, demeaned or forced to listen to endless ramblings of 'feelings' and 'how was your day?' Who cares? The day is over! Any one agree?Jack Callil wrote:
8. What is it that you enjoy about an adult doll that you don’t with a human being?
Modeling! Another thing is she is 'willing' to model any outfit without the usual ' I won't look good in THAT' or 'I am not putting that on'. I can spend hours admiring her in anything she wears without the 'Why do you keep looking at me?' . As a summery I can spend time admiring her .
In so much as she is a DOLL, yes. I know she doesn't comprehend nor ever be able to respond. That being said,It is nice to tell her how pretty she is, about the things I bought for her and sometimes just little things that happened. ( just like to hear myself talking sometimes, I guess)Jack Callil wrote:
9. Do you talk to your doll, if so, what about?
In conclusion ... My "SILICONE SWEETY" is a great addition into life and has raised my quality of life having her to share my time. Her beauty is a constant through out the day. Just to wake up to such beauty is tremendous. Thoughts of outfits to get her fill the open moments . The anticipation of how things will look on her gives lift to an otherwise mundane day.