Life is about control. Do you want your lights going on and off on their own? Do you want your car to take you where you don’t want to go? Do you want others to decide what you eat and wear? Control gives us what we want on our terms.SizeKing wrote:Back on topic: most sexual crime is about control. Dolls are also about control. I applaud the survey and how we have to examine the uncomfortable subject of how even the most passive man will need to have an area in their life to be king.
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And consensual sex can turn into a rape allegation. Just ask Kobe Bryant.LDF wrote:You know what's funny...
We can design a 'better study' because we are the ones who are aware of the actual 'domains' that apply to us.
BTW: I think the title is misleading since this study isn't really about our views about sex. It's more about where we think the 'boundaries' of permissible actions are. -Like rape vs consensual sex.
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And if you try to control people like you control inanimate objects you get in trouble. Dolls can feel like controlling a person.Stepford_CT wrote: Life is about control. Do you want your lights going on and off on their own? Do you want your car to take you where you don’t want to go? Do you want others to decide what you eat and wear? Control gives us what we want on our terms.
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Which is why we have dolls. We control them without any trouble.SizeKing wrote:And if you try to control people like you control inanimate objects you get in trouble. Dolls can feel like controlling a person.Stepford_CT wrote: Life is about control. Do you want your lights going on and off on their own? Do you want your car to take you where you don’t want to go? Do you want others to decide what you eat and wear? Control gives us what we want on our terms.
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Stepford_CT wrote:
Which is why we have dolls. We control them without any trouble.
With what my girls get up to I guess I failed at that big time!
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Agreed. I purchased my doll in order to have sex when I want. I control if, when, and for how long. I don’t need a woman.LonelyDude wrote:Erroneous assumption here is that men purchase sex dolls because they want to dominate and control women.
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Dude. That sounds unhinged and just feeding the stereotypes you just lambasted.SynthetikReality95 wrote:ban this motherfucking surveyor!!! We aren't criminals, rapists, or even weirdos. We're just regular people tired of what the dating world has become, or just tired of the bullshit and games of the other sex... or we just like dolls! Y'all constantly refuse to acknowledge we're normal guys, so fuck you! Never come back, PLEASE. We fucking HATE you, the mods are just too P.C. to admit you're a cunt; but i'll say it.... you're a cunt, PLEASE commit suicide right now.
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The "side" we're hiding is the side the law enforcement will try to call a "dark side". As a USAF veteran, I also served to protect the rights of US citizens, but as most of you doll owners who live in the US know, we're losing our freedoms little by little every day.ccrider32759 wrote:Didn't care for the insinuation that those who oppose this survey have some sort of dark side to hide. I am opposed to this because it clearly appears to be an attempt to compare doll owners to non-owners in a criminal behavior setting and parameters. Regardless of said intent, this data could be very harmful to doll owners and fans of dolls. There's no guarantee or control over how this data is compiled, distributed, or applied in the criminal behavior or legal world. My opinion of this topic is based on safety and protection of people's freedom, not hiding some nefarious behavior. I am a veteran, I have literally given blood, sweat, and tears to support freedom. So I support your freedom to choose what is best for you, but at the same time I will also point out things that could be a danger. And in this case, right from the beginning it places doll owners in comparison to non-owners in a "criminal behavior setting". This should stand out as a huge "red flag". But you are free to choose if you want to participate or not, just keep in mind that your data may be used against you and the rest of us as well.
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Amen brother, just gotta keep fighting and seeking the truth.Stepford_CT wrote: As a USAF veteran, I also served to protect the rights of US citizens, but as most of you doll owners who live in the US know, we're losing our freedoms little by little every day.
Thanks for your service
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While protections are supposed to be in place to ensure that everyone who takes the survey stays anonymous, some respondents may still have doubts. Especially here in the US after it was learned that government agencies were reading our private emails.
Even if the concern over privacy is misplaced, such concern will surely affect the survey results as some respondents will likely give only socially acceptable answers just to play it safe.
Perhaps the word association part of the survey was to act as sort of a "control" to ensure that the answers to the questions were inline with the true mindset of the respondent? If so, I don't think it was effective as some of us didn't know the meaning of some of the words and phrases used as they are used mainly in the UK.
While we are supposed to speak the same language in the US and the UK, we attach different meanings to some of our words. Not to mention that we may use some words in one country and not in the other. So if a person answers a question based on what he THINKS the question means rather than upon what it REALLY means, then that's a problem as it's one more thing that can affect the survey results.
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As I said before, it's unlikely that there's going to be a significant difference between doll owners and others.