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By now many members have found that I'm not frightened of telling people perhaps what they might not like to hear.

One of the dangers of humanity is that we retreat out of life, and thereby don't live. The modern world disenfranchises us in so many ways that we feel to varying extents helpless and unable to do anything that will make a difference.

Dolls can be a way for people to retreat, but can also be a way to help us to live. It's important to try to choose the living route rather than the retreating route. If we retreat then we simply enfranchise the big to become more powerful. We then become not humans but as robots farmed by the producers to consume, us drugged by the illusion of pleasure of consuming, and thereby the producers consuming us and our lives and our earth which we license the producers to rape.

Whether we feel incapacitated and want to retreat or empowered so that we can do something about things is only an illusion, and the choice is for all. All can do something about things and achieve.

Recently I wrote two posts which are potentially helpful - http://dollforum.com/forum/viewtopic.ph ... 03#p812003 on the subject of the doll in our lives and
http://dollforum.com/forum/viewtopic.ph ... 74#p812074
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xyz wrote:But the other bit about being angry or upset with the world, I don't see it that way. Video games are an escape, a fun way to pass the time.
{my emphasis}

I didn't say you were angry or upset with the world. That's the trouble.

You are but you're only implicitly admitting it. You're taking the videogame drug to blank it out hiding from the real things that make you, and all, unhappy.

The human race will never survive that way.

We only have one life and it's ours whilst we have it to do whatever we want to. We're not here to pass the time - we've got a job to do and we can do it . . .

Blanking out the troubles and not doing anything about them simply allows the bad things to continue which makes the earth a hell, a hell of corruption that no-one cleans up. The idea of the sources of religions (ignore the overlay of human corruptions and abuses by people who don't understand) have been with the intent of uniting heaven and earth. This is why when you go into an Egyptian tomb http://www.info-world.com/egypt/temples-pyramids-tombs/
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there are stars on the ceiling and it's all about night and day, light and darkness. These things are symbolic, as are many things in the misunderstood, and in the sun rising and setting the heavens meet the earth. The sky is symbolic, a high place in your mind. So heaven is a place in the mind - the paradise from which we all come from - and into which you try to retreat or hide in videogames.

But the earth, and the human condition, is about bringing that paradise on earth, and so the kingdom of paradise to reign in the real life arena of life, life on earth, and for that will of paradise to achieve it.

Retreating into the minddrugs that dull our minds to the real world is not how we achieve it, such that we're content to leave this earth with a purgatory in which we have to escape the dangerous beasts.

There are dangerous beasts that make us angry. Large corporations raping the earth and raping its people, economically and forcing them into unpaid labour whilst the supergods of the middle east squander their abundance of resources stolen from the world at the Casinos on the French Riviera.

OK - now you see what makes me angry. That's why I asked you what makes you angry.

And unless you do something about it and create an actual heaven rather than retreating into the videofantasy promoted by people to get rich and to subjugate the earth's inhabitants, the halfway existence of purgatory and hell will persist on earth because people don't put their minds to straightening it out.

It's not straightened out by rules, or laws (*Chaplin - the Great Dictator) - and that's where the middle eastern establishment fails - subjugating the populations by rules and guilt and fear, preventing enjoyment of all sorts of human things to celebrate, such as music and dolls - but instead it's sorted out through the heart and the mind, and the will to do it - to do paradise in real life, this life, heaven.

Whilst one is drugged, one has not the will. We have to find the will, the mental freedom, and thence to do it. And our ability to create heaven on earth is the good news. All of us have the power to do it, provided we access that power from the heavens within us on earth. And we can.

:glou:

The concept of bringing the heaven of our minds to our lives in life on earth gives us strength
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strength to withstand
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strength to be firm
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strength to endure
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And this is why the abusers of power like to and want to erase such places and destroy our heritage, and why places such as Palmyra are the symbolic and actual rocks in the sands.
I hope that this is a useful perspective.

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Hey Harem,

Thanks for giving this a bump with your new post. Helps me to understand you better.

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karpos wrote:Helps me to understand you better.
Yes - I know that you're not alone in considering that I might be a καρπός κέικ but that's what all who are individuals and who are intelligent enough to do something beyond the bounds of the herd are often considered to be.

To the researcher recently I wrote:
The doll world is rather prejudiced by an image of a sexual taboo and hypocritical disgust but it's a common experience for those who enter it to find a transformation. Even if the initial attraction of dolls might be desires of sex, fulfillment of sexual frustrations in such ways pacifying the animal rather than it emerging into other directions must be a good thing for society, and beyond that people find that any sexual activity is far outpaced by the ability of these dolls to be people and to excite imagination and learn empathy.

This reconnects us therefore to the play of children with dolls which in my view is a therapeutically beneficial activity for the same reasons, and experimenting in role play and alternate lives and paths, sorting out courses of action in real life, and akin to the theatre or experiencing novels. The doll becomes a matter of art.

The biggest barrier for all of humanity is presented by that of our very own skins.

In real life I'm a follower of the ancient gods, Apollo and Dionysus, so I tend to have the mindset of the arts and their benefit close to my heart. With the connexion of Dionysus with crops, fertility,* we lead back to sex and for those matters of excess for which he is more commonly given a bad press becomes an interesting subject in relation to . . . posable mannequins in the form of adult silicone dolls.

I'm happily married with three sons in late teens and have a wonderful wife. But we have to be away from each other from time to time . . . and as one gets older sex becomes more capricious and often the body doesn't function when one wants it to function and a whole host of things therefore that makes a sexual pacification without going outside the marriage a matter of plain commonsense.

So a fantasy lady that's not real means that wife knows husband to be a faithful husband, even if she doesn't like dolls even less husband enjoying sex with a doll. The wife can feel inadequate or inferior - this can lead to problems and is the cause of many not liking dolls. Furthermore the woman's sexuality is often based on emotion and fantasy whereas the male sexuality is often a matter of sensation and sensuality, even merely of the moment. The male sexuality requires great effort in which the mind cannot be distracted by anything other than single minded task of sex and satisfaction whilst the female can think of anything under the sun. For many men, the woman will talk of family matters, things associated with problems, things that occupy a deep thought area of the man's brain which prevents the necessary singleminded focus on sex. So for many men the doll thinking of nothing than sex can enable sex of a focussed and special enjoyment.

My wife has said to me sometimes "I know you've got a mistress in France" . . . "And she's not even real" to which I respond "Well it's a jolly good job she isn't".

Many people want to portray a doll relationship as somehow perverted but the negativity is often only a matter of a reflection of the negativity and unintelligence of the person expressing such opinions. People want to be part of a normalcy. They feel more comfortable within the herd. Having courage to do something which might be perceived to be different puts them outside the herd and more vulnerable to predators wanting to shoot them. So they stay within the herd and often unhappy at doing so, secretly feeling envy for those who are free. They see the illusion and image of the ultimate attractive lady in the figure of the doll without all the strings attached, and the way in which very beautiful young women who know they're visibly beautiful can abuse it and take men for a ride, and be envious of the ultimately desirable doll for those reasons.

Even if a wife doesn't like or approve of the doll, dolls can keep marriages together in circumstances where otherwise marriages could so easily split apart.
*In the spirit of uniting heaven and earth Dionysus was not merely about earthly fertility "Give us our daily bread" but also about mental fertility too. The religion was heavenly as well as earthly and this is indicated by the figures on the Borghese Vase and the silver plate of the Mildenhall Treasure in the British Museum in worship of Bacchus, 600AD. Bacchus or Dionysus in the imagery there of rescuing the drunken man, probably Selinus the historian, is shown not as an earthly figure but as only an upper torso, without legs, with a curly twirling star on his shoulder indicating his heavenly, spiritual, nature.
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Continuing the theme that dolls provide mirrors in which we see ourselves better and understand others all the more, therefore the personification of dolls being important, I try to bring such ideas to reality such as on http://dollforum.com/forum/viewtopic.ph ... 93#p820793 and http://dollforum.com/forum/viewtopic.ph ... 97#p819597 and often try with great patience to explain to people where possibly helpful how a change of perspective, from the point of view of "other", can be very beneficial to encompass http://dollforum.com/forum/viewtopic.ph ... 78#p825778.

To me, this is the value of dolls.

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Harem, you have been very helpful. I enjoy reading your posts because you have always have some deep insight towards to topic at hand. Thank you for taking the time to share you thoughts and ideas with us.
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The theme of dolls being a mirror of mankind . . . has surfaced again . . .
http://dollforum.com/forum/viewtopic.ph ... 1&p=867582
In fact, dolls are an origin of one of the oldest contemplations of humanity.

The ancient belief is that man is made in the image of that which creates life. Dionysus was the ancient embodiment of "the force of life in all growing things". https://books.google.co.uk/books?id=tXb ... or&f=false

He was tortured whilst looking in a mirror. http://www.sacred-texts.com/pag/frazer/gb04300.htm http://www.stoa.org/diotima/essays/seaford.shtml

The doll is a mirror of us. On the other side of life is the mirror of afterlife. The doll herself is dead but we bring her to life out of deadness.

The doll is an image of reflexion and it is this reflection upon which you contemplate.

The acquisition of a doll is an initiation into the Mysteries in the ancient sense, which the doll is bringing to you as you reflect upon them.

The doll becomes that initiation in terms of ancient tribal rites of passage, between Adult and Elder in the series that starts with Child and finishes in Ancestor.

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Perhaps men coming to dolls might start with thoughts of . . . sex . . .

Dionysus or Bacchus is rather well known in that field . . . But the followers of Dionysos, the life force behind all growing things, find themselves here through the initiation of dolls, able to access life changing wisdoms.

I hope that on engaging on a series of photos that some might oggle at in terms of pornography . . . starting from http://www.dollforum.com/forum/viewtopi ... 15&t=68321 Queen Nefertiti is simply naturally naked, in worship of the sun, ancient creation forces, and her dancing becomes so much more in life than merely sex. It's here that her dance becomes transformatory as I believe dolls can be.

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Harem,

Enjoyed reading this and many of your other posts. Thanks for the links to other peoples stories and your comments on my own.

Thanks from the other side of the pond.

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Fantastic thread Harem. I truly appreciate your insights. The thoughts expressed in your first post in this thread were eye-opening. I really enjoy reading your posts. Thank you.
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Harem, your introductory letters are phenomenal. I am so looking forward to meeting you one day and joining you in photo sessions.

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Thank you so much for your comments and expressions of appreciation that makes taking time to write worthwhile.

If anyone is interested the book by Richard Seaford on Dionysos https://books.google.co.uk/books/about/ ... edir_esc=y puts a new dimension upon what the idea of Bacchus normally brings to mind. My wife is currently absorbing it whilst I'm reading "The Hermetica" by Timothy Freke and Peter Gandy "The Lost Wisdom of the Pharoahs" and it's quite apparent that both Dionysos and Hermes Trismegistus went to the root of the "Life Force", with more influence upon modern times than often we give credit for.

One of the most powerful ideas of Hermes Trismegistus was that time does not exist. The past is past, and does not exist, and the future has not happened yet, so does not exist whilst the present is gone as soon as we blink, so disappearing as fast as it appears, the present doesn't exist either. So only eternity exists. This really puts our normal perceptions in a mirror, and that is a journey which starts with a doll in mirroring of us.

Benisons and wassails

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My Chloé who does more than merely tend her lemon tree
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was delighted to find that she has been inspiration to others - http://www.dollforum.com/forum/viewtopi ... 84#p918884

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Bravo. You are a fountain of knowledge and much appreciated here.
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These are some great thoughts, and you being a physicist and a hermeticist has spurred me to share some thoughts of my own.

Consciousness - Literally (Together knowledge/awareness)

It is an an awareness of other entities, and how we can interact with them. The term "socially conscious" reflects this.

There are three things in the universe: Matter, energy, and information. All of these arise from force:

* Matter (Mass, solidity, energy interactions) are all just manifestations of forces.
* Energy is the ability to do work, work is applied force, so energy is the ability to apply force.
* Information arises from the configuration of matter or energy.

This may be the traditional 3 from the 1 we see in the old religions.

We don't observe things, we can only observe transfers of energy.
The particles of the standard model we observe are really just collections of the properties of energy transfers. As Schrodinger said, you can't observe a particle, only measure the energy patterns something else absorbs from it. And once it gives off that energy, it is changed so you never know what state it's actually in at any given time.

For consciousness (or any ordered system) to arise requires matter, energy and information.
Matter for the reagents (biomass), energy to drive the reactions (sunlight), and information to guide them (DNA).

I believe that only applies to intelligent entities. I don't think atoms are "aware" of other atoms, and decide to react with them. Lower processes are purely deterministic, and require only forces to operate. I guess any mind is also deterministic but much more complex. I also don't believe in "energy beings" or disembodied consciousness, because you need the material structures to guide the energy transfers that give rise to any logic system.

Ordered systems also build upon one another, lower level structures creating higher level ones. Just as collections of individual cells came to form multi-cellular organism, collections of organisms can create larger entities. People working together create organizations and societies. The gods of old were probably anthropomorphic representations or various societies. And monotheism represents the desire to unit all of humanity into one global society.

As for time, I think it's just a minds way of measuring rate of change. Everything only "exists" as it is at any given moment. Actually, or metal representation of the world is of a lower resolution since our frame rate is relatively low, and always lagging a little behind because of logic delay. My thoughts on relativity are that time and space are not things, just measurements our minds use to build our mental representations, and relativistic changes in them are due to change in the propagation speed of the electromagnetic force (light) by gravitational fields & relative velocity. The space traveler ages more quickly because the all processes go faster if the energy transfers happen faster. The speed of light being like the tick of our logic clock.

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I think that dolls use the ability to create alter personalities. It's something religion has being doing for all of human history. It shows up in Dissociative personality disorder, where the dissociation is cause by trauma, where in religion & magic it's cause by prayer and meditation. A personality grows as the person has new experiences. So long as the person's identity is the same, it will become part of the same personalty, though maybe a different personality "mode" (as seen by very different behaviors in a persons personality). If the base personality is suppressed by dissociation, the new experiences can form into a new personality.

It seems to be the same thing when people talk to their god, guardian angel, dead relatives. When you go to church, pray and listen to the teaching it's fostering the Christ personality to form in you. You create an alter (images representations, items of association, candles, mirrors) and pray or meditate while performing a prayer or chant. Sex, repetitive or intensive actions (playing and care, and role playing would also cause dissociation and allow the personalities to form. The more experience the personality has the more intricate it will become. I think Idolatry and the golem are closely related.

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Most interesting thoughts and thank you so much. Very helpful. I think that one can go further, however, in the animation of inanimate things causing a collective consciousness, for the reason of what you might call information - cause and effect. Statistical mechanics relies on the principle that no cell can be occupied by two entities. So the filling of one position with one item means that another item cannot go there, and if a space materialises, it is there to be filled. Anthropologically for instance, politics abhors a vacuum - a leader always fills the function if the chair is empty.

The effect of cause and effect therefore causes an interdependence, of everything and everything, all dependant upon decisions. Where two decisions meet matter (or a person) materialises, animate or inanimate and self-determining or not.

All is governed by a process, the process of creation where things either work together to form things useful at a higher level, or remain as compost to feed the process somewhere or sometime else.

Time - what is time? Through Einstein I came to realise that time is merely something that we experience. We experience it individually and locally collectively. Time can be broken, therefore, when an experience of time is broken. What happens to energy in situations where time is broken, in a timeframe that the subject of the breaking experiences, or in another timeframe, is a leading question.

Your thoughts leading to dolls are very profound.

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