and I thought it was just me

dark4ngel64 · Post by **dark4ngel64** » Sat Mar 24, 2018 12:45 pm

Hi
did not know there were really forums for this genre of .... hmm.
To ease those that think - "You guys are sick" syndrome, I am told that I am easy on the eyes good catch bla bla bla, couple that with an abnormally high IQ, knowledge in several fields from automotive, plumbing and electrical to artist singer as well as IT specialist, can program in 6 languages and much more. told many times (and heard when they think I am not listening) I am a riot to work with, unmatched customer service - and much more

Lemme climb back down my pedistal LOL

With all that said, I must have a nasty target on my back as I get the most awful women. I wont tell any tales as many of you know what I am referring to. But to those that do not understand, it is NOT about sex, although that plays a role, the key word is companionship. So she doesn't talk. but she doesn't complain or play head games. I once thought a pet would be enough, but ....

If I had thousands of dollars, I would definatley find me a nice companion. But until then...

I have become cynical of woman in my age (over 50). To me, they use sex for just about anything, including their attire. And now that technology is ALMOST caught up, they can almost be replaced. Then what

Anyways. I'l watch here and see what others experience. See if I can find companionship on this side of the world.

cheers!!

Dollfriend · Post by **Dollfriend** » Sat Mar 24, 2018 5:08 pm

Yep Dealing with the opposite Sex can be a Mega Hassle, Thats the Great thing about the Doll Hobby, all that negativity can be channeled to a Positive Note of your choosing, there are all kinds of Dolls at all Price points, and the Variety gets bigger every day, Thank God!.

dark4ngel64 · Post by **dark4ngel64** » Sat Mar 24, 2018 5:43 pm

Agreed, however,for this type of companionship,only the most realistic I would entertain (pun intended LoL). And for that, I would have to collect a few more presidential flashcards heh

optical delusion · Post by **optical delusion** » Sat Mar 24, 2018 5:46 pm

welcome to tdf.

companionship is precisely what i have mine for. i am 9 months in and have not found the need for sex yet as that i not what i need from them. mine are to provide that presence that i have needed in my life for so long and have yet been able to find in a "normal" relationship. and my dolls have done just that.

someone to hold at night but give you your space when you need it. to sit with you and watch a movie with. to be there for you with a pleasant smile when you come back home. to sit with you at the table while you eat a meal instead of grabbing something to shove in your mouth while you sit in front of the tv. and to be able to care for someone because you want to, not because it is expected, or coerced out of you. just a pure form of companionship, no strings attached

my quality of life has improved greatly since bring a doll into my life. and it is one that recommend to others to try.

haremlover · Post by **haremlover** » Sat Mar 24, 2018 6:17 pm

Hi!

And WELCOME!

Best wishes

Harem

Unknown03 · Post by **Unknown03** » Sat Mar 24, 2018 6:38 pm

Nope, it's not just you, but you've probably figured that out. Welcome to tdf from another 50-something who found dolls to be the prefect companion for this next stage of my life.

rwsim727 · Post by **rwsim727** » Sat Mar 24, 2018 6:44 pm

Man-woman relationships have become so very, very complicated.
Thanks feminists ..... I appreciate it.....

ravensrayne · Post by **ravensrayne** » Sat Mar 24, 2018 7:09 pm

Good luck with your search, I believe you'll find this is a great group to be around. Raven

DexterQuest · Post by **DexterQuest** » Sat Mar 24, 2018 9:18 pm

RG (real girl) relationships always ended up being a big disappointment. I had one relationship that was amazing, but it was always on the premise that it was short term. I did want her forever, but she wasn't ready. Overall the girls who I really liked didn't like me the same and vice versa. I could have settled down with a pretty girl with a wealthy family, but she was high maintenance plus wanted kids quickly. She married the next guy she dated and they divorced after having two kids. I felt bad for the guy because I knew what kind of ridiculousness she put him through thanks to her Facebook feed.

I have no desire to have kids. Having a good relationship would be more than enough. I found that my idea of a perfect girl was fictional. I would pretend that a girl would have certain qualities for me. I tried being selfish but
the real compromise was overwhelming.

Now that some dolls that have become as attractive as real girls, they have fulfilled my relationship desires. Since I was already pretending that real girls were different than they actually were, the jump to dolls was very natural for me. In that aspect, I'm completely happy and not lonely.

The Messenger · Post by **The Messenger** » Sat Mar 24, 2018 10:23 pm

I'm amazed at how many times I come to this forum and read my thoughts and feelings being described by other men.
For years I struggled with "what am I going to do about this" always in the back of my mind concerning my frustration with RGs. I thought I was alone in my thinking. Everyone else seemed content to suffer in bad relationships. Where my male friends seemed to be expected to be unhappy.
I never even heard about Dolls until recently, but dove in as soon as I read up on them. My first doll still has yet to arrive, but I have high hopes. Especially when I read so many posts about how Dolls have enhanced their lives. I wish I had come upon the culture sooner.