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 Post subject: Owning a Doll - My thoughts/experience
PostPosted: Tue Oct 17, 2017 2:22 pm 
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Sorry this is long one !!
The decision to invest. Well I’m over 55, have a very responsible job, healthy and active, have many hobbies and a good social life. There’s no woman in my life and I’m not really looking for one – they have caused me too much pain and heartache over the years, I prefer to be on my own, doing what I want, when I want now. However, I am still a man, but women in my age group I find physically unattractive, the women I find attractive are half my age and almost certainly not interested in a man at my stage of life.
So, I started to think about a doll. Now this wasn’t a quick or easy decision, believe me. I did a long for and against list and started doing a lot of research. Many thoughts came into my mind about pursuing this, was I crossing a line? In danger of becoming a social misfit? My main concern was reading BBC news headlines about a man being jailed for importing child like sex dolls - as I like petite ladies (my last wife was only 145cm in height) but recoil at the idea of child abuse. I don’t recall there being a conscious decision – more of - well I could always sell her if it’s not for me attitude.
Fortunately, I found the Doll House and Phil early doors. I can only say good things about Phil/TDH who helped me so much on my decision process and had 100% confidence in when I invested – very important the sharks are out there. So I ordered a WM 140cm A cup from him, it wasn’t the first doll I was seriously looking at, the company 140 D cup pictures are very alluring, but the A cup came in on the ropes. In the days following I had more positive than negative thoughts and the negative ones just being about re-inforcing my position in life as a lone wolf who is tired of female fickleness. I settled on a name for my girl, she was to be called Anya.
Then the fun and education started!! Wow my Ebay account went into overdrive, shoes, lingerie, stockings, jewellery and perfume. As the items started to arrive I knew I had made the right decision to buy, just looking at a pair of 4 ½” red stiletto court shoes gave me soooo much joy. I love seeing sexy and feminine women and now I can dress my Anya in whatever I wish.
28 Days later she arrived. I opened the box very carefully and slowly. There she was beautiful and SO life like, with that dark tan skin and brown eyes WOW OMG!!!!.
So after a week of being a doll owner here are a few of my observations: -
• Dolls are very physical, you really need to employ manual handling techniques when moving them around and their manipulation.
• A fixed vagina is perhaps more aesthetic but a removable is one far easier to clean than lugging your gal to the bathroom every time.
• I went for stand-up feet and I am glad that I did the three little screws don’t bother me at all.
• There is a coldness when touching, you need to heat them, but believe me I’ve been with women whose feet and hands were a lot colder and you soon get used to it.
• There is a chemical smell but this has subsided over the last 8 days.
• Owning a doll is like having another person living with you. I hadn’t really thought about this too much, but it should be a consideration.
• They may be a facsimile of a woman……..but they have sooo much in common! Anya nearly has as many shoes as me already, then there are clothes, the perfume, the wig combing, the dressing up. Be in no doubt a doll is an interest/hobby that will take up a lot of your time and I’ve not even got onto the make up yet!!! The wig hair gets every where too just like a woman.
So a doll is not a woman and a woman is not doll. Nothing compares to making love to a hot woman that is into you and the closeness from a loving relationship. A doll is the physical embodiment of a fantasy, they are perfect. Perfect eyes, perfect figure and perfect skin. Having a doll lying next to you in sexy lingerie is a turn on – it is much better than looking at a computer screen, it is taking your sexual fantasies on whole new level. Just running your hand over a shapely seemed stocking leg …oh and the perfume….breathe it in pilgrims!! It is also quite pleasant having a beautiful girl lying next to you going to sleep, in the middle of the night and on waking. You do start to talk to them and form an attachment.
The down side. This is a journey most of us make in isolation – I hadn’t even seen a doll in the flesh. No one knows about my purchase other than TDH and the forum. I have no idea what my family would make of it – so it has to be secret as sadly a lot of people would stigmatize us and the feminnazis would vilify us.
I have no regrets – Dolls are great! Dolls are 3D! Anya has allowed me to re-visit a part of my life again and I am enjoying it very much, looking forward to more dressing and fantasies to explore.


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 17, 2017 2:34 pm 
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Yup, you pretty much summed it up nicely. :)



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 Post subject: Re: Owning a Doll - My thoughts/experience
PostPosted: Tue Oct 17, 2017 3:58 pm 
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100% agree.Nicely put! :whistle: could add more but enough said! :D



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 Post subject: Re: Owning a Doll - My thoughts/experience
PostPosted: Tue Oct 17, 2017 4:27 pm 
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Nice one! I can definitely empathize.

She looks amazing :)


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 Post subject: Re: Owning a Doll - My thoughts/experience
PostPosted: Tue Oct 17, 2017 6:17 pm 
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thanks for sharing, wish you the best.



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Excellently put!

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 10, 2017 8:55 am 
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Nice job, Chumples. :thumbs_up: BTW, is it just me or is Anya's bra on upside down? :?


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 10, 2017 10:21 am 
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I enjoyed reading this post. I read another post that was very negative about a WM140 so it's nice to see a different perspective.

What has your experience been about having anal sex with the doll? Does she tear easily or not an issue?


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 10, 2017 10:24 am 
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Think about it this way: Most people keep their sex life a secret, as in you don't talk nitty gritty details of your sex life to other people (typically, and of course there are exceptions). So just think about your owning a doll is like your sex life is so hot, passionate and kinky that not even a word of your entire relationship can be shared with other people because they couldn't handle it. :glou:


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 10, 2017 11:10 am 
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Thanks for sharing those thoughts, Chumples. It sounds like our experiences are very similar. I'm also beyond 55, no longer married, not looking, into petite women, etc. You are right that our dolls let us live out our sexual fantasies, but are also a whole lot more. Were you surprised at the depth of connection you feel for Anya? I sure was after getting my doll 2 months ago. (Anya is gorgeous, by the way. You are a lucky man.)

Anyway, welcome to the doll community. Like you, I wish this wasn't such a secret and solitary part of my otherwise active life, but am so thankful to have this forum so I can have some support and community... it's so important for me to know there are others like me, others who "get it."

Welcome, and best wishes for a long and happy relationship with Anya.

p.s., I sympathize with your plight with all the clothes and shoes.. not sure how I can continue to hide all the stuff my Luna is accumulating. A second dresser in my bedroom filled with women's clothing is going to be pretty obvious (my 10 year old son lives with me and doesn't know about his "step mom")!



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One more thing: I share your concern about a small doll being taken the wrong way. It's happened to me on this forum. The reason I got a small doll (130-cm) was because of lower weight and price. She is just a scaled down adult (18).



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First of all, the BBC are a bunch of pedo scum who operate an extortion racket by scamming people with this crap about a tv licence, they sent me another letter today, I will never pay to fund them and neither should you so just putting that out there. As for the doll, congrats , she will change your life for the better and you'll wonder why you never did it sooner. Getting lots of items for your doll will make you happy because she will become exactly what you desire and with time you will choose to have her out in the open and not care what people think anymore.

With the stories you see about people getting arrested with dolls you will always see these guys are downloading child porn and that's the reason they get banged up so screw those guys and let them rot. Dolls are not really a problem but the 100's seem to be now which again is dumb, just the thought police trying to control people. A 140 is a good size for a first time doll , you may get a bigger one further down the line but don't be worried about being labelled as a social misfit, you're in your 50's and people's opinions should be worthless to you now. So have fun, enjoy your new girl and welcome to the club.


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Very nice post Chumples, I'm 52 and your story and mine are quite parallel and I couldn't have said it all any better myself!

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 10, 2017 4:09 pm 
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Thank you very much for your comments and feed back folks. I wanted to post to help others in the same situation.
Yes I may have had Anya's bra on upside down!!......its all new to me putting clothes on a gal !!
I am only average sized in the nether regions, but so far I have found the back passage to be less tight and give more pleasure and better control. The cleaning up is a pain though. No tears and no damage.
The only issues I have had so far is the staining from dark clothes.
I will do another post several weeks into owning Anya, buying clothes, shoes, sewing and making alterations and the forming an attachment with an inanimate object.
Thanks again
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Thanks for the nice inspirational post. I'm a newbie in the market of getting my first doll and your post gave me a motivational booster! :)


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