sexdolladdict123 wrote:[
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the reason for this high demand is probably due to social media and the advancements in technology. before instagram, tinder, and all these sites, women really did not know how valuable their vagina is. there was no evidence of that except for the few guys in her social circle that wanted to get with her. now you have a blast of hyper sexualized culture in america. tons of guys running around that want to get laid, spamming girls on social media and dating sites desperate to get something from these girls. and girls take notice of this. so what do they do? they start increasing the requirements, they start witholding sex and using it as a bargaining tool because they can see how many thirsty guys want it, they get resentful when giving it up to a guy because they know just how "high in demand" vagina really is. so they try to get what they believe it's worth first before giving it up. honestly though, these sites truly are a waste of time. i gave up on them long ago. what's the point in swiping and messaging hundreds of girls when in the end the results will be near 0? it's a waste of time at that point. you're better off seeking other options if all you want is casual sex
Actually, that mentality existed when I was a young university graduate 40 years ago, well before political correctness and the Internet.
Back then, one could still try dating someone using traditional methods without getting an adverse reaction. The women I knew back then were considerably more gracious and it was acceptable for them to behave like ladies. Also, unless a woman was actually married, it was permissible for a man to try and court her, even if she had a boyfriend.
However, by about the mid-1980s, things had changed significantly. A definite hostility had developed and I met a number of women who were deeply offended if a man who wasn't up to
their standard was even interested in them. It was as if they felt they had a right to wage war on someone if he displeased them in the slightest. Also, there was an unwritten social rule that if she was in any sort of relationship, even if it was having a boyfriend, she was considered off limits--dating someone was equivalent to being married to them.
It was quite frustrating to say the least.
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