I'm trying to understand

[Abisslover]

The worst for me would be someone else finding my doll. I would want someone else to have it after Im gone, maybe get some joy out of it. What about those guys that hide their dolls?? I keep my doll a secret because I dont want people I know to judge me for the things I do. Oh yeah and what about my porn collection?? I have nightmares about people finding it after Im gone......There should be some sort of service we can hire to remove dolls and porn and give them less fortunate people who could use them.........

[jleedee]

I have struggled with the "what about my doll when I'm gone" issue and it is a struggle. At this point, only one of my daughters, who also is named as my executer, knows about Miss Kitty. At first I bounced around with the idea of having her contact someone in the doll community about finding a new home for Miss Kitty, but believe it or not, with the special feelings that I have for her and the comfort she has given me, I don't know how well I can handle that. At this point I have instructed that Miss Kitty be cremated with me and our ashes scattered over a portion of upper Lake Michigan where I used to sail and it was sort of like Brer Rabbits "Happy Place" to me. I don't know whether i will continue to feel this way or not, but at this point I am comfortable with it and at almost 70 years old, I may not have too many years to debate it. Who knows?

[timetraveler1]

i had brought up this very issue one time that if something happened to you today who would see all your stuff and doll . some pre plans np matter what your age should be done and a will or paper be typed out just in case .