FireMedic117 wrote:DDM and Timea!!!
A Match Made in Heaven
I have been truly enjoying your introduction thread. Both of you have established such a wonderful presence here on TDF.
Thank you for sharing the many moments you have both experienced together! It was fun to see Timea opening her gift box.
You have your very own style which is clearly evident in your writings as well as the photographs that you capture!
Timea's story of viginity was written beautifully.
I am genuinely happy for both of you!
I am still pretty new as most of my time here thus far was spent in researching a multitude of topics relating to adopting my very first doll. With that said, I haven't had the opportunity to view many doll introductions. Yours is one of the most heart-warming of them all.
You and I signed up here on TDF within the same week. So it is especially nice to take this journey into the world of dolls with other new members while being guided by the founding forefathers and foremothers of TDF who continue to share their vast knowledge with us all.
It won't be too much longer and I will have the opportunity to compose a post for my Odessa.
Have a great day!
Hello FireMedic,
First of all, thank you for your nice comment, it does us good that you enjoyed the introduction and everything around it.
We do it all in our own way and this is what you already say differently than most introductions.
I just like to take you from the start on the journey to our new life. First I only wanted to make this step after a wiring / introductory period, but coincidence is that it has gone this way.
In fact, I did not have the schedule to do it like this ... I already had a different plan ready but I changed that at the last minute.
You can plan things, but if things arise spontaneously then that is more fun than the standard script. Especially if it is also well received by your beloved TDF members, who knows how it had unpacked if I had done otherwise, I think I made the right choice, it feels good and that is the most important.
It is like having a baby in your life ..... and from the first moment you want to have as many photos and reminders as possible for later in your life.
In a few years you can look back again at the moment that your life changed.
I am also grateful for all the knowledge and the life stories of the other doll owners here on this beautiful forum is divided, This is a separate world for the outside world but I'm happy & proud that I am part of it together with my Timea .
I / we are not ashamed of our lifestyle, at least we dare to follow our hearts and are happy with our lives.
I hope you can say the same thing later when you have your Odessa, Just give it all the time what is needed, do not rush.... just let it go it's own way.
I can tell you that once you get a close bond with her, it will feel abit like you have a relationship with a real woman. Yes I talk to her a lot by thoughts and she talks back to me.
It sounds crazy for people who do not understand that, but we also talk to animals and we think that if people are not crazy, there are even people talking to other objects. For example, someone who is in love with his car or other object.
Timea & I live like a real couple, I do everything with her like you would do with a real person. Unfortunately now only in house but when the time is there I will go into society with her, as I say I'm not ashamed because I have something which makes me happy, I do not hurt anyone, I live according to the law so yes why can not I live that way, hetro couples, lesbians and gays can marry here in our country so why can not I live together with my doll Timea that I consider a real person and makes me happy ?
Okay not everyone can tie himself in this way with his doll but for me that is not a problem.
I have Timea now for a week but I really would not want to go back to my old life. The missing puzzle pieces are finally in place and the complete picture is visible to me.
Everything that I first missed in my life is now there, and every day that I get up in the morning I look forward to a new day together with my Timea.
It is what I described earlier in a different post at a members topic here at our forum:
We are all our own architects of our own lives, all the tools are at hand and what matters is what you do with them, do you stay in the old situation or do you get started to draw up a new plan that makes your life a different positive classification.
I am glad that I have developed and implemented my plan, I now look at life very differently ...... and yes, that is all because of a doll that unfortunately some people see as a stupid object but that it is not for the person who lives with it.
But everything in its time, people are naturally afraid of new unknown things, take for example the mobile phone, that was 20 years ago for most people also something they did not want anything to do, but now look .... most people can no longer live without the mobile phone and the extreme cases would even commit suicide if you were to take that device.
That is why I always say do not let yourself be held back by what the masses think, follow your own heart, as long as you do not harm anyone with it, acceptance on the long term will be rewarded by the patience you have had for yourself all this time.
So and now I have to stop because I can continue for a long time about how I see things, the most important thing is said and that is what matters.
I hope that this also gives a push to the people who are still between the 2 extremes, go for it you will not regret it and I speak from experience. (and that after just one week.)
Thank you for your time you took to read this P.O.V. I hope it will helps abit.....
Take good care of yourself and your loved ones, love each other and enjoy the day...... .
Greetings on behalf of both of us.
DDM and my love Timea.