Rock13 wrote:dollydolldolls wrote:It's fascinating me in a way, you're going towards real girls while approaching your 60s. Meanwhile, I'm barely 21 and soon embracing the doll lifestyle with the arrival of my first and second doll instead of going towards real girls to experience sexual pleasure or end up in a relationship, as I'm in my best years to have success with real girls, or am I?
I think it depends on what metrics you use to determine what "best" means... genuine relationship opportunities, frequency of hookups, whatever. From some of the articles I've read, my direct observations of many people with whom I've been acquainted, and my own experience most men don't reach their "best years" until around age 25 and that tends to last until around their mid-30s. For women it's around 19 - 28. The "prime". If you consider what most men and women want from their relationships and one another, this age ratio makes sense. Have you ever heard an 18 year old girl say "I only date older men" meaning men from 25 to 35? Conversely, have you ever seen well-established men in their mid-30s hooking up with 22 - 28 year old women? It seems to be the norm from what I've seen.
Your answer came to me as a surprise, as you've shared some very detailed thoughts I wouldn't have thought of without your involvement
Metrics very well be a great indicator to generally mention some characteristics of the so called 'prime time', so we can create a bare estimate of when men reach 'their prime' time regarding relationships with women. We shouldn't forget to look at it on a case to case basis, as men come with different priorities, expectations, and wishes.
As of my priorities, freedom is the one I'd rank the highest. I can tell you with absolute certainty, I'm never going to marry a woman, as well as never going to take a loan from a bank, as it would create an unbearable burden, plaguing me on a daily basis.
Compare well-established married men, owning real estate, stocks, cars, and other financial assets to me, a youngster owning virtually nothing aside of his new dolls, soon to be delivered and some cryptocurrencies he's easily hiding from authorities. The ease of entering and leaving a relationship when things go South and a point of no return has been reached, is non-existent to the well-established married man, as he'd need to go to court, pay his attorney tremendous amounts of money, potentially lose half of his financial assets and time he'd never be able to regain. Then again, if he never married, then he most likely preserved the same freedom I've been praising over and over again.
Another observation I'd like to mention, adult relationships involve unpleasant obligations and topics, that need to be addressed more frequently, comparing it to the obligations of a youngster, who may be still living at home and attending college/trade school classes.
If I'd be committing to a partner, then I'd love to see our relationship revolving around love and not originating through the wealth one partner has attained. And my guess is, I might be in a better position now, than I will be in ten years time. But then again, this particular demand seems highly unrealistic as of today, no matter how old or young you are
Seriously, long as you're happy, young brother!
