I've done it!
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I've done it!
I'm new here, after reading in this forum for a half a year or so I've now signed up.
I can hardly bevieve I've done it!
I've ordered a RD2 body F face Tanya doll!
I've been thinking of this ever since I viewed a documentary on Realdoll.
However, the price is very high - and I'm married.
So why?
We get on great together, but my wife doesn't care for sex. Four times a year is simply not enough for me (rather 4 times a day )
So I suggested to buy a realdoll. You may guess that my wife was not at all amused.
But after some talk she agreed that I can buy a doll - without knowing at all what I had in mind.
So I took the chance and ordered RD2 Tanya.
My wife was devastated when I told her the price of the doll.(Don't worry, it's my own money.) Besides that, she said she would not like to see me having sex with this doll.
Ok, fair enough. I can understand that.
On the other hand she has a Womanizer (I bought for her) and is very pleased with it.
I did look at other, much cheaper dolls, but after seeing Tanya I just simply couldn't go for any other.
It's going to be a problem finding a place for Tanya, as we live in a small appartement and my wife will surely not want Tanya in the living room.
I've got no idea how my wife is going to react when Tanya arrives, which will take up to 6 months unfortunately. She doesn't want to see any photos, which is probably a good thing at the moment.
Will she be ashamed that Tanya has a supposedly better figure? Will she find her pretty? Will she be jealous?
I don't know. We'll see how it turns out.
Any experience from the forum regarding this topic?
Regards
Marcus
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i would have suggested a smaller doll...so would have been easier to store...and your wife wouldnt have to see it ...just my 2 cents
i wish the best with your new synthetic love
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Thanks a lot for your advise.
However, I would have a problem with a smaller doll.
My wife is about the same size as Tanya, so I know that fits
I can imagine that Tanya will appear to be much larger when she arrives, and also a lot heavier (that's one of my concerns).
Yes, I also know that this doll will change my relationship to my wife. For the good or the bad - that's to be seen.
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Marcus
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Good luck with the 2nd lady coming to your marriage. That should be quite a roller coaster ride!
If the wife won't take your sexual needs seriously and help you manage your sexual needs, then she really has left you no choice but to take care of your needs yourself. You can't just shut your sexual needs off, it's biological, part of who you are. Stand your ground. You deserve to have a life that isn't filled with constant frustration. Stop asking for permission and do what you need to do.
That is my humble opinion. I was married for 10 years and I put her needs in front of mine too often. I sincerely wish you the best of luck. If you can't make it work, there is always the nuclear option. Divorce. Sometime you have to make a mess to fix shit.
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Thanks so much for your kind words.
That's exactly my feeling.If the wife won't take your sexual needs seriously and help you manage your sexual needs, then she really has left you no choice but to take care of your needs yourself. You can't just shut your sexual needs off, it's biological, part of who you are. Stand your ground. You deserve to have a life that isn't filled with constant frustration. Stop asking for permission and do what you need to do.
How can anyone demand someone to resign from having sex for the rest of their life?
I'll keep you informed on how this works out. Right now it's completely uncertain - but I had to do something.
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Marcus
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Yes I know that's a hell of a waiting period.Tomoe wrote:Congrats on your coming doll! Hope everything works out with the wifey and all 6 months though... whew that's a killer of a waiting period. It's amazing to me how a company like DS can make a doll in 8-10 working days, but RD takes 6 months! I guess they have a lot fewer staff and a big waiting list of dolls to make.
I just couldn't help myself - I want Tanya. I simply can't go for another.
Marcus
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And RD2 is a fantastic high quality doll, so you've made a solid choice! But damn, I'd go crazy waiting that long.MarcusM wrote:
Yes I know that's a hell of a waiting period.
I just couldn't help myself - I want Tanya. I simply can't go for another.
Marcus
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I'm really, really uneasy. I just can't wait for Tanya. After thinking about ordering a doll for so many months, and then finally been able to do so, I would like to have her here by me as soon as possible.
I have absolutely no experience with dolls so far, but I'm so realy sure that I'll be satisfied with Tanya. She looks absolutely beautifull. Although the weight is a but of a concern to me.
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Marcus
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Emilia DS 145 Elf
Angelica 165 cm anime fabric doll with silicone head
Previously owned dolls:
Katherine WM 135 cm
Miyuki 160 cm Anime fabric
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Tomoe wrote:On the bright side you have 6 months to work out to get ready to handle that weight
That's a good one!
I could hardly stop laughing!
And I will surely try that! She's about 36 kg - half my weight. If I practise, I should be able to manage her weight by then.
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Marcus
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A) Wife was devastated by the cost.
B) Wife doesn't want to know about your sexcapades with the doll.
C) Wife doesn't want to see any pictures of what you spent a huge amount of money on.
D) You have a small apartment where you need to hide another person/doll and a place to have said sexcapades.
I can't see this having any sort of positive ending.
Good luck.
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You might be right. But you might be wrong.
I can clearly recognise your arguments - these are my concerns also.
However: I had to do something, and this was my choise.
How it will work out nobody knows. My wife clings on me, she loves me and I love her. So I do see a realistic chance that this might work out - but I might be completely wrong.
The future will tell if this was a good decision.
Right now I can't wait for Tanya. Saying that, that may be some kind of bad omen for my marriage if I'm so in awaiting Tanya.
Regards
Marcus
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