Female owners: the big "O"

[Rock13]

So funny that a ton of guys jumped in to answer what the OP was asking of women.
On behalf of my gender .. apologies.

Yeah, I made a qualitative observation regarding this phenomenon and went on a bit of a tirade last night...

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Hi, Rock13. I went ahead and read your thread. I appreciate your concern about whether it's appropriate for men to offer their advice and opinions to women who own male dolls. I think other members offering advice - whether they're male or female - is fine as long as their advice is helpful. The only exception would be if a woman needs advice from other women regarding female anatomy, since other women have a better understanding of that than men. Other than that, I'm happy to hear from the fellas.

That's why I started my own thread rather than risk further contaminating your thread here. The issue that I brought up in my thread has been bothering me for a long time and I was fed up. I knew that I'd get plenty of blowback on my observations and opinions, but I didn't care about that, I just wanted to get it off my chest because I enjoy seeing what the girls are talking about and I get pissed when an interesting thread dies from radiation poisoning.

[true_blue22]

That's why I started my own thread rather than risk further contaminating your thread here. The issue that I brought up in my thread has been bothering me for a long time and I was fed up. I knew that I'd get plenty of blowback on my observations and opinions, but I didn't care about that, I just wanted to get it off my chest because I enjoy seeing what the girls are talking about and I get pissed when an interesting thread dies from radiation poisoning.

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Hi, Rock13. I really appreciate you creating your own thread to discuss whether men should comment on women's doll topics. I personally don't mind if the fellas want to comment on my thread if they're offering helpful advice. Perhaps other guys will read your thread and it will make them more self-aware before they post comments or advice for female members. I commend you for raising this issue even though you knew you would probably get backlash from some of the male members. Thanks for caring.

[muesky6969]

Not a female, but my concern is the tale of silicone being harmful to tpe. I've never experienced it myself, but just to be safe you may want to put a layer of protection in between the two. A condom or cutting a sheet of fabric to size where the first things that came to mind.

For things like silicone and latex that is harmful to TPE, that is if it is exposed long term to the TPE. They do sell cock rings and clitoral stimulators that are made out of TPE, but as long as you don't leave it on the doll after fun time it should be fine. I always put a condom on my dolls just because of hygiene concerns. But both the stimulator and condom are taken off as soon as we are done and I clean my doll thoroughly afterwards..

I know for some guys the idea of women having sex dolls is very novel and interesting. Please keep in mind most of the women on here who own dolls are between the ages of 30-60, and have life experience. But for us the dolls are a whole different thing. It take a bit more work to figure out how the doll will work for us.. Which means we need to be very aware of how our body works to know what does it for us.. Plus most of the crap out there about what gets a woman off, is just that CRAP.. I was not kidding on my last post on this thread, I do not have a 'g-spot' and actually find internal vibrators really uncomfortable. To have an orgasm I must have clitoral stimulation but even that is different from woman to the next.

Personally I am waiting for WM to release new penis attachments, because of how the penises are attached to WM male dolls it sits so far back that it is really hard to find a position that will work for Agares and I, plus the current ones are just weird.. Xiel and I get along well, but he is so damn heavy the only position that really works for us is me straddling him.. Either way I am still doing all the work, the lazy bastards!! Just kidding, I love my guys, but I am still doing all the work.. and I am old and broken so most of the time me and one of the guys just cuddle, as that is all the energy I have..

[true_blue22]

For things like silicone and latex that is harmful to TPE, that is if it is exposed long term to the TPE. They do sell cock rings and clitoral stimulators that are made out of TPE, but as long as you don't leave it on the doll after fun time it should be fine. I always put a condom on my dolls just because of hygiene concerns. But both the stimulator and condom are taken off as soon as we are done and I clean my doll thoroughly afterwards..

Hi, muesky. Thanks for that great advice about silicone devices coming into contact with the TPE - and for the personal hygiene tip about using condoms with your dolls. I'm also holding off on ordering my doll until WM releases the new penis attachments and I can check them out. Hopefully we won't have to wait too much longer for them.

[DG]

I also cannot wait for the new penis attachments. I'm gonna have to order 4 sets!

[true_blue22]

I also cannot wait for the new penis attachments. I'm gonna have to order 4 sets!

Hi, DG. I'm looking forward to seeing the new penis attachments, too. Muesky expressed to me that it would be awesome if WM also made some new heads to go with the existing 160cm bodies - and I agree: being able to change their appearance instantly by switching to a new head/face would be wonderful.

[muesky6969]

I also cannot wait for the new penis attachments. I'm gonna have to order 4 sets!

DG you are going to have peckers all over the place!!! LOL!!!

Oh I totally can't wait for WM to release their new penises.. I am so excited, as I will also be ordering a set of articulated hands bones for Agares as well.

[MannyCan]

Plus most of the crap out there about what gets a woman off, is just that CRAP..

Many people have no idea the differences between a male O and a female O. That's because most people have not grasp that gender "anatomy" includes a mental state of mind. They think of anatomy and a process like O much like they think about an XBox or a PS5.

The male anatomy is not dissimilar to a game controller. .. sure.

The female anatomy is NOT a game controller. Its not about tapping here and here and BAM it happens.
The female anatomy is the game itself.

[muesky6969]

Plus most of the crap out there about what gets a woman off, is just that CRAP..

Many people have no idea the differences between a male O and a female O. That's because most people have not grasp that gender "anatomy" includes a mental state of mind. They think of anatomy and a process like O much like they think about an XBox or a PS5.

The male anatomy is not dissimilar to a game controller. .. sure.

The female anatomy is NOT a game controller. Its not about tapping here and here and BAM it happens.
The female anatomy is the game itself.

That right there!! You got it MannyCan!!

As True Blue and I have talked about, some women have a g-spot and can climax with penetration, some of use don't. For me I have to have clitoral stimulation or it just becomes painful.

So now here is me getting up on my soap box. Unfortunately for you guys porn has done you all a disservice, as often times pretty much everything but the guy finally dumping a load is all fake. No you cannot demand a woman have an orgasm and it happens. A big dick often is not pleasurable, especially if the woman has not been prepared for it first. Rarely just thrusting in and out as fast and hard as you can will help a woman achieve an orgasm.. No women do not have the big "O" just by playing or sucking on her tits. And cumming on a woman's face is a show of dominance and is demeaning, and there is nothing sexy about any of that. Oh an cum in your eye burns like hell..

I will kindly step off my soap box now.. Thanks for listening to my Ted Talks!!

[Fiveldsp]

I don't believe any of us guys who tried to provide insight into this topic were ever working off the premise that we knew what would make a woman orgasm. Most of us spoke directly to the connection one feels with their doll and how that can have an impact on your ability to orgasm. Since the OP doesn't currently own a doll, those of us who feel passionately about that connection felt sharing that would contribute, at least some, to the conversation. I know that Z and I are both individuals who have spoke directly on the bonds we have with our guys. The orgasms that I have with my doll have nothing to do with his size or motion (obviously, lazy bastard), but in how into him I am emotionally. It's hard to explain that to someone before they actually have their doll, but that was the contribution we were trying to make. Apologies for trying to share what I felt was a relevant gesture

[Rock13]

Plus most of the crap out there about what gets a woman off, is just that CRAP..

Many people have no idea the differences between a male O and a female O. That's because most people have not grasp that gender "anatomy" includes a mental state of mind. They think of anatomy and a process like O much like they think about an XBox or a PS5.

The male anatomy is not dissimilar to a game controller. .. sure.

The female anatomy is NOT a game controller. Its not about tapping here and here and BAM it happens.
The female anatomy is the game itself.

Wow, after 45 years of one night stands, flings, shack-ups, and two marriages, I feel so much smarter now. Game controller is now in the trash can where it belongs. Thanks!

[ShadowCat]

Hi, everyone. I've read every topic on the male doll forum and I've never seen this subject raised before. So, ladies - how do you reach an orgasm with your male doll? I've never been able to get off with g-spot stimulation, so clitoral stimulation is a must for me. I've considered a vibrating cock ring - do you think that would work? Do you think it would cause any damage to the doll's TPE penis? I'd love to hear your ideas and suggestions. Thanks, girls.

The best I can do is just to share my own experience. I do think it may take some time and experimenting to find what works for you and your doll. For me to experience a true orgasm, a lot of stuff has to line up- mentally, emotionally, physically and even hormonal. There are definitely times in my monthly cycle when I feel more sexual and times when I don’t. There is no mental block with a doll- worry about performance, you partner, what you both are comfortable doing. Although I know he is a doll, I do have an emotional connection to Luca (not the same as I might to a person) so he is more than just a sex toy.

I do achieve O through penetration, but that is typically following vaginal and clitoral stimulation. I have two different penis sizes for Luca. I have to be really “warmed up” to use the larger one and have switched out sizes during play time. Of course, girl on top is the easiest position, but Luca is light enough that both of us kneeling on the bed works and I have figured out how to do missionary as well. I do find that stimulation of my front vaginal wall works for me and that can be done best in the on top or kneeling position. To get to the missionary position, I start with Luca kneeling, lay down in front of him and then slowly lower him onto me. Of course, I have to guide his penis as well initially. He is resting on his forearms (elbows bent) not his hands! I roll him off to the side to move him and be able to get back up. Not sure this would be ok for someone with back problems which I don’t have.

Experiment and see what works for you. This is the first time I have shared such intimate information, but if it helps someone, that’s good. It is also fun to read the boy’s comments as long as it’s respectful.

[true_blue22]

Many people have no idea the differences between a male O and a female O. That's because most people have not grasp that gender "anatomy" includes a mental state of mind. They think of anatomy and a process like O much like they think about an XBox or a PS5.

The male anatomy is not dissimilar to a game controller. .. sure.

The female anatomy is NOT a game controller. Its not about tapping here and here and BAM it happens.
The female anatomy is the game itself.

Good point, MannyCan. Especially that last part which I highlighted in bold. I agree that the person's mental state - whether they're female or male - plays a part in reaching an orgasm. It's not just about physical stimulation.

[true_blue22]

The best I can do is just to share my own experience. I do think it may take some time and experimenting to find what works for you and your doll. For me to experience a true orgasm, a lot of stuff has to line up- mentally, emotionally, physically and even hormonal. There are definitely times in my monthly cycle when I feel more sexual and times when I don’t. There is no mental block with a doll- worry about performance, you partner, what you both are comfortable doing. Although I know he is a doll, I do have an emotional connection to Luca (not the same as I might to a person) so he is more than just a sex toy.

I do achieve O through penetration, but that is typically following vaginal and clitoral stimulation. I have two different penis sizes for Luca. I have to be really “warmed up” to use the larger one and have switched out sizes during play time. Of course, girl on top is the easiest position, but Luca is light enough that both of us kneeling on the bed works and I have figured out how to do missionary as well. I do find that stimulation of my front vaginal wall works for me and that can be done best in the on top or kneeling position. To get to the missionary position, I start with Luca kneeling, lay down in front of him and then slowly lower him onto me. Of course, I have to guide his penis as well initially. He is resting on his forearms (elbows bent) not his hands! I roll him off to the side to move him and be able to get back up. Not sure this would be ok for someone with back problems which I don’t have.

Experiment and see what works for you. This is the first time I have shared such intimate information, but if it helps someone, that’s good. It is also fun to read the boy’s comments as long as it’s respectful.

Hi, ShadowCat. I really appreciate you sharing this intimate information with me. I have only just ordered my male doll - so it's going to take some time for me to get used to handling/moving him after he arrives. I was really interested to hear about the different positions you're able to use with Luca. So far I have only imagined sex with me on top since I guess that would be the easiest.

[dom mic]

You girls don't mind a guy leaving you a recommendation because I think I have the answer? Of the women who don't achieve an orgasm by a sex doll's penis, could it be because the tpe or plastic penis is too dry, too big, too hard, not slippery enough since its tpe rubber material, and not flexible enough? I never used a male doll before, and will not, but I imagine of those women who can't reach that special moment, first of all add loads of lube since the penis is totally dry, and try a male adult doll that has a very flexible, soft but erected penis thats also small or even very small when fully erected. It might do the trick.

And for both male and female doll owners, do they also make special male and female dolls that are also very slippery there, the more slippery the more easy to achieve the goal. Since tpe rubber doesn't seem slippery enough even with added lube, I notice that with the 2 tpe female dolls I own and I don't think there is such a material that can provide more of a slippery or very slippery touch unless its glass with added lube? Imagine a female sex doll made out of very slippery glass with added lube. They don't make that anywhere.