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I have not dressed her yet. Maybe I'll see if I can find something I can throw on if I'm gonna do a re-shoot to sell her anyway. Might as well.Martinson Joe wrote: ↑Mon Feb 05, 2024 3:23 pm Can I ask, have you dressed her? You don't need anything fancy at first, I lent my girl an old tracksuit and a pair of socks for the first weeks. Just make her comfy at home, and see how it goes.
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All I had when I first got my girl was the pink nighty they sent. I had bought some panties so I put that on her and one of my T-shirts until I could buy some other clothes for her. Feeling her titties through that T-shirt was great. I ran my hands all over her, rolled her over on her side to caress that fine butt and it was great. It had literally been years since I felt a real woman like that and it was a joy. She was a great kisser as well. I had the #122 head that has great kissable lips like the #266. I always took a long time kissing her good night.Fairy King wrote: ↑Mon Feb 05, 2024 5:52 pmI have not dressed her yet. Maybe I'll see if I can find something I can throw on if I'm gonna do a re-shoot to sell her anyway. Might as well.Martinson Joe wrote: ↑Mon Feb 05, 2024 3:23 pm Can I ask, have you dressed her? You don't need anything fancy at first, I lent my girl an old tracksuit and a pair of socks for the first weeks. Just make her comfy at home, and see how it goes.
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I am almost in the same boat right now. I finally decided to pull the trigger on a WM 158L about 2 weeks ago, and can't stop thinking about if it was the right decision for me or not. I customized it and everything meaning it won't be another month or two before it arrives, so I have just been sitting here in my thoughts about it and my anxiety is spiraling. All of the things you said are exactly what I am worried about. What if having this very large and heavy thing in my space is bigger burden than I expected? How am I gonna even store it properly? What if someone finds it? What if it has negative side effects on my mental health/personality? How would I even go about getting rid of it if I determine it isn't right for me?Fairy King wrote: ↑Sat Feb 03, 2024 6:12 pm I never even knew sex dolls existed until the pandemic, and then I got kind of hooked on reading about them and looking at pictures of them. I finally decided to buy one, and it came today. I got the WM 172 b cup in tan with heads 242 and 368 from Annie's in-stock selection. I kept thinking about why I wanted one, and what I needed to realize about myself for wanting one, and then I kind of figured it out and realized I didn't want it. I realized that it's not really about sex or viewing women only as sexual objects, it's about exploring your own sexuality as a man, but with a feminine body. In a way you're exploring your masculinity by playing with femininity. A doll. And once I realized that was why I wanted it, I realized I didn't need a doll to do that. The problem was, it was too late. They already shipped it and I couldn't return it. So I took responsibility and decided it was fate and I might as well just go all the way and see if I liked it after all. The anticipation was crushing me, and finally it arrived. I couldn't believe my eyes as I unboxed it. It was even better than any of the photo shoots I had seen. I knew the weight was going to be a thing from having read so many posts about it, but it really is something you have to try to fully understand. I get it now. I went ahead and had sex with it. That part was fine. My favorite thing was being able to wrap the arms about me, that really made it great. I actually dated a woman once with a very similar build and I have to admit it's all very realistic. But I thought about how much time and effort went into it, and storing it and dragging it around, just having it stored away in the box, and I just realized I don't want that for myself. I'm glad I scratched the itch, because that was a serious itch. I don't know if I've ever had an itch like that, but I've done it now, and I honestly just can't wait for it to be gone. I listed it in the Market section, so I just have to wait it out I guess. Or I might just end up cutting it up into small un-identifiable pieces and throwing it away. I want it to be over.
Your story is the first thing I've read so far in this forum that I can relate to in this moment. I am a bit nervous my outcome might be the same as yours, but it's too late to turn back now, so we will just have to wait and see. Thank you for your shedding light on your experience, and for everyone else here who provided advice on how to integrate a doll into the life of a first-timer.
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Me I have no delusions - I view dolls as the most expensive high end sex toys of quality you can get, epic scale masturbators that are also great to look at. High end adult "action" figures. An improvement on the onaholes I've used before, the torso toy or "mini" I have now, just kind of working my way up slowly to more polished and less cheap ways to relieve my lusts. So when I finally can afford and justify that purchase and get my first doll as long as it meets that one expectation of being damn good for getting me to climax, I won't be disappointed. You know, unless it breaks after a few uses or something and doesn't last long enough for the amount of money sunk into it, then I'd be disappointed yeah.
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Glad I could help! I considered everything I could think of and lurked on here for well over a year before hitting that point where I realized I just had to actually go for it, so I made myself order her. It was a huge rush. I think in the end it was just like how I felt having her here. I couldn't have predicted how that would feel, and I knew I might not like it, but I didn't know for sure. And I think I also decided that because of everything that's happening in the world right now, why not do something crazy? So I did.Merp1353 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 09, 2024 2:23 pm Your story is the first thing I've read so far in this forum that I can relate to in this moment. I am a bit nervous my outcome might be the same as yours, but it's too late to turn back now, so we will just have to wait and see. Thank you for your shedding light on your experience, and for everyone else here who provided advice on how to integrate a doll into the life of a first-timer.
Anyway, I've sold her now and she's gone. I do miss her a tiny bit, but I also just feel more like my old self now, and that makes me a lot happier. Maybe one day I'll get another, but for now, I will not.
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For many, the pendulum of emotions swing back and forth. It took some time for you to place your order as you went back and forth. In my humble opinion, I suggest giving it some more time as you sort out whether to keep her. There are so many aspects to weigh in on. Shame, physical desire, social acceptance, and more. How can you sort all that out quickly? Sure you spent some energy up to this point, but everything is hard until you learn it and then it becomes easy. Please remember that dolls are only getting better and better.Fairy King wrote: ↑Sat Feb 03, 2024 6:12 pm I never even knew sex dolls existed until the pandemic, and then I got kind of hooked on reading about them and looking at pictures of them. I finally decided to buy one, and it came today. I got the WM 172 b cup in tan with heads 242 and 368 from Annie's in-stock selection. I kept thinking about why I wanted one, and what I needed to realize about myself for wanting one, and then I kind of figured it out and realized I didn't want it. I realized that it's not really about sex or viewing women only as sexual objects, it's about exploring your own sexuality as a man, but with a feminine body. In a way you're exploring your masculinity by playing with femininity. A doll. And once I realized that was why I wanted it, I realized I didn't need a doll to do that. The problem was, it was too late. They already shipped it and I couldn't return it. So I took responsibility and decided it was fate and I might as well just go all the way and see if I liked it after all. The anticipation was crushing me, and finally it arrived. I couldn't believe my eyes as I unboxed it. It was even better than any of the photo shoots I had seen. I knew the weight was going to be a thing from having read so many posts about it, but it really is something you have to try to fully understand. I get it now. I went ahead and had sex with it. That part was fine. My favorite thing was being able to wrap the arms about me, that really made it great. I actually dated a woman once with a very similar build and I have to admit it's all very realistic. But I thought about how much time and effort went into it, and storing it and dragging it around, just having it stored away in the box, and I just realized I don't want that for myself. I'm glad I scratched the itch, because that was a serious itch. I don't know if I've ever had an itch like that, but I've done it now, and I honestly just can't wait for it to be gone. I listed it in the Market section, so I just have to wait it out I guess. Or I might just end up cutting it up into small un-identifiable pieces and throwing it away. I want it to be over.
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Actually, I felt exactly the same way as you did when I let go of my first doll.Fairy King wrote: ↑Fri Feb 09, 2024 9:35 pm Anyway, I've sold her now and she's gone. I do miss her a tiny bit, but I also just feel more like my old self now, and that makes me a lot happier. Maybe one day I'll get another, but for now, I will not.
But now, about five or six years later...
There is a new doll in my room...
The doll in the avatar on the right is it.
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some people got dolls because it's hard for them to hook up with RG... some people got dolls because they are tired of the ups and downs of relationships... there are more types and situations out there... it doesn't matter what type you are, or what situation you are in, we all need sex... RGs are still best (except for the aforementioned relationship ups & downs), but dolls are the next best thing, and after a few years of dolls, i can't go back to watching porn and ask my hands to do the work anymore...Fairy King wrote: ↑Sat Feb 03, 2024 6:12 pm I never even knew sex dolls existed until the pandemic, and then I got kind of hooked on reading about them and looking at pictures of them. I finally decided to buy one, and it came today. I got the WM 172 b cup in tan with heads 242 and 368 from Annie's in-stock selection. I kept thinking about why I wanted one, and what I needed to realize about myself for wanting one, and then I kind of figured it out and realized I didn't want it. I realized that it's not really about sex or viewing women only as sexual objects, it's about exploring your own sexuality as a man, but with a feminine body. In a way you're exploring your masculinity by playing with femininity. A doll. And once I realized that was why I wanted it, I realized I didn't need a doll to do that. The problem was, it was too late. They already shipped it and I couldn't return it. So I took responsibility and decided it was fate and I might as well just go all the way and see if I liked it after all. The anticipation was crushing me, and finally it arrived. I couldn't believe my eyes as I unboxed it. It was even better than any of the photo shoots I had seen. I knew the weight was going to be a thing from having read so many posts about it, but it really is something you have to try to fully understand. I get it now. I went ahead and had sex with it. That part was fine. My favorite thing was being able to wrap the arms about me, that really made it great. I actually dated a woman once with a very similar build and I have to admit it's all very realistic. But I thought about how much time and effort went into it, and storing it and dragging it around, just having it stored away in the box, and I just realized I don't want that for myself. I'm glad I scratched the itch, because that was a serious itch. I don't know if I've ever had an itch like that, but I've done it now, and I honestly just can't wait for it to be gone. I listed it in the Market section, so I just have to wait it out I guess. Or I might just end up cutting it up into small un-identifiable pieces and throwing it away. I want it to be over.